36th BLOG POST -->>
What's the average age bar in which
boys and girls fall into the so-called Relationship that has lots of monetary
love involved in it? Nowadays, children right from 5th std has started getting
involved in affairs because parents don't hesitate in providing them mobile at
such a juvenile age. But, the average age bar is 16 years to 22. Right? No,
this is not a result of any survey but my own observations and I don't think
that anything can be better faithful numbers than those given by me. A deep
deep sorry to all of you who read the previous sentence. :-) At this age, my
generation claims to understand every thing about love. They start roaming here
and there with their hand in hand and believe that they know what an eternal
word like LOVE means. Either God of Love has stopped working over the
department given to him or human-beings defeated him by challenging him
continuously. :-)
The last stupid so-called affair in which my one friend had- didn't involve a single penny in it. It progressed for 15 days to end
like the submersion of Titanic but still, he didn't let a single penny from his pocket to be spent over her. Everyone who hears this sees his with disbelief and
feels as if he is one of the most undeserving boyfriends; as if he was excited to
get the title of "Most Desirable". Huh! If money is all that
expresses love, its better to stay out of it. If money is all that tells that I
care for the person, its better that you go and lay down with Ambani's and
Tendulkar's sons. I, being a son of middle-class family, can not afford such
relationship. Girls have started believing that boyfriend will have to pay
every time they will go for an outing, dinner, shopping or trip. Even if girl
friend buys bangles, artificial jewel, sandals or any damn cheapiyapa (Sorry
for the English version of ...... that I had to create :-)), boy friend pays
for it. I have even overheard,"Friends k saath shopping karne mein apna
kharch hota hai. Boyfriend k saath jaane mein sub uska isliye main us hi k
saath jaana pasand karti hoon".
Just
answer a question. When both the boy and girl are in college, both have no
source of income, all money that they have is a subset of their Pocket money,
then how does a boy turns up to be the one who pays for every expenses? In
which religion is this been said? Idiots, cheapos, it's husband who has to pay
every thing that his wife needs. That's a relationship that is considered in
every "dharma". This boyfriend-girlfriend thing does not exist
anywhere in any worthy and respectful holy book. So, please stop using your
boyfriend as a husband. He is not. And even you know that you are not sure
about marrying him. Because, when you will see that your father has arranged
someone who already earns 40,000 a month and is a stable person in life, you
will leave this poor guy who kept on spending all his pocket money over you.
Shame girlfriends!!!
Secondly,
a girl of any kind- intelligent or idiot knows that the pocket money which
their boy friend gets is NOT more than 1000-1500. Still, when they see that
their boyfriend is buying expensive gifts for them, they never neglect. Why?
Because this is what they need from boyfriend; to spend on all those areas over
which they can't spend themselves because of their low pocket money. So cheap.
Each and every Indian knows that the price of petrol is increasing like
population in our country. Still, these girlfriends will never say NO to their
boyfriend when he'll assure that he will take her for a long ride on the
outskirts of the city. They know that their boyfriend has brought them to one
of the expensive hotels of the town which the girlfriend's father could himself
can't afford but still she will never say to her boy to not to spend so much.
Each and every girl knows that the boyfriend is stealing money from home to entertain
them, every girl knows that he may be doing some illegal activities to get
these amount of money to spend over her but still, they have no concern about
this.
When
both of you are non-working and as you bloody love-birds say that we love each
other equally and in infinity, then show it equally. Both of you pay equally
every time you are out. Because boy friend isn't earning anything. He is in the
same situation as you. Then how can you let him spend his father's money over
you? Already his father is struggling with the inflation and mehengayi and
feeding your boyfriend, his siblings, his mother and his grandparents. Also
attending several guests at home. Saving for his daughter's wedding. Now, you
expect your boyfriend's father to also take care of you just because you are a
temporary "material" in his son's life. Huh! When its your
boyfriend's birthday, he feeds you in an expensive hotel and shows you movie in
a Multiplex. When its your birthday, even then he feeds you and shows you a
movie. Who the hell has invented this concept?
Girlfriends,
can't you pay for what you eat with him? Can't you pay for your movie ticket?
Can't you pay for whatever you purchase and let your boyfriend pay the money?
Are you so poor and down-market? Can't you recharge your cell to call him? Why
do you make him call you every time? Can't you pay for petrol equally every
time you play a part of pillion behind him? These girlfriends don't even feel
ashamed when they are been gifted with expensive gifts like gold ear-rings, handset,
dresses, wristwatch etc. They take it happily (I don't understand as to why
parents of these girls don't ask them about the things at home which they have
not purchased for them). And
astonishingly, if you'll blame these girlfriends for looting their boyfriend,
they'll say that its boyfriend's fault that he spends over them and not theirs.
Shameful!
Girls,
if you are using your boyfriends' money, at least make it sure that you are
utilizing his money at the right place. This I am saying only on the condition
that you have dropped down to a cheap level where you'll make him spend over
you, only then is this applied that I am saying. Make it sure that he is not
gifting you a 15000 Rs cell phone but is paying 15000 of your total college
fees. At least that will save your father's money. You will at least save
someone's money. Make it sure that he is paying the D-Mart bill of your house's
monthly shopping. That will help your parents a lot. Don't do this sin
purposely of letting your boyfriend spend this amount of money over you. Stop
trying to be innocent. I don't know why these stupid boyfriends want to prove
their manliness by spending on these girlfriends. Can't they show it by talking
to his and her parents and proving them by reaching a level where he starts
achieving more than his-and-her father achieved in their life? If you are a
man, do this rather than feeding your girlfriend (who is purposely enjoying
benefits) by your old father's money who is already dying in mehengaai. Stop
stealing at home. Stop asking for 5000 Rs at home when you know that the
Semester form's fee is just 2000 rs. Stop looting your parents.
In the
end, let me tell all of you what my blunt opinion is. A boy wants to enjoy a
physical relationship that he can never get except from a prostitute/call-girl.
And this is very risky. Hence he stalks a girl that he likes. A girl retorts
with YES because she needs money in life to enjoy the pleasure of life which
she can never get with the kind of pocket-money she gets. She is happy with the
condom-clad penis getting penetrated into her every Valentine's, birthday, New
Year, trip etc. And in return, boy is happy with all the expenditure that he
does. This is the only purpose for which this bloody boyfriend-girlfriend wala
relationship comes into existence by colliding against all the
"dharmas", "religions" and "Holy-books". If you
feel that I am wrong, tell me in which boyfriend-girlfriend-wala-relationship
has boobs not been sucked and penis not been touched? If your relationship is
over a year old and there has been no physical involvement, then I must say
that boy and girl are in pure and sweet love that I believe love really is. But
if there has been unhooking of bra and unbuttoning of jeans in a private room
then... it's all LUST and BEHUDAPANN. That's ALL!!!
P.S.: I don't regret a single word said in the post. I want
girls to know that they are also a robber with their boyfriend every time he
steals money from his mother's purse or father's wallet. And there is no
concept where boyfriend is the only one who has to pay. You are an equal
partner to him. To boyfriends, I would say, don't hesitate in sharing the link
of this blog post with your girlfriend. This is truth and your girlfriend
should realize it. And stupid you, control your lust. Remember, they are as
lusty as you. So, let them also pay for the same- physical exploration and fun.
P.P.S.: This post is not generalized for all. It is for the
targeted boyfriends/girlfriends. Those boys/girls who have never been involved
in any relationship can replace the word "girls/boys" with
"girlfriends/boyfriends" wherever it is been used in the post. :-) I
never generalize every one.
Thanks.
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