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| With B.Lakshmi Narayana from Andhra Pradesh |
Last week I come back after completed training at Jinjholi. There I was happy to meet so many friends of RSS-social work, come from all over India MP, UP, CG, Rajasthan, Haryana, AP etc. It was first time that at a time we’re together and were excited to know about their culture, language, environment etc. It was like a short trip to different state or of India just to come know about Sresth Bharat. And there we enjoyed a lot and all of us share stage with short play. And here participated after a long time in any talent show, debate etc which you can watch on YouTube Video.
Last day some were happy and some
were sad because the get new friends and after one week they going to their previous
destination back. But here most of us were reject at last time. But we’re happy
from this experience. Being rejected from something good just means you were
being pointed toward something better. But here I remember a guy again and
again whom we gave a name “Galib”. He was so fantastic on stage to
present and lovely or heartbroken shahyari. Here I’m going to write this blog
post on Rejection in any field like as job interview, audition or love wala
relationship etc. Here I'll not tell deeply.
Such Kaho Hum Se Tumko Kitna Pyar hai
Tere Bina Kya Jeena Ab Jeena Dushvar hai
Who says
rejection always has to be painful? Tell me about that person Main Us Ko
Sudharta hu…. Ha ha ha :-) just kidding. You have probably been so concerned
with avoiding rejection that it never occurred to you it can sometimes be a
good thing. Here I’m just telling a novel idea:- stop looking at everything as
success versus failure, or acceptance
versus rejection. Instead, see every situation as an opportunity to see what
happens and get some feedback about the world. You’ll always get some feedback,
so you can’t possibly get rejected.
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| Breakfast Time with Friends |
You won’t always be able to re-frame your rejections quickly and smoothly. The fact is you are going to experience hurt feelings or negative emotions in these types of situations. When this happens, you need a fast-acting toolkit of mindsets to adopt and actions to take in order to minimize these negative emotions and get back on your feet. So remember don’t take it personally. It’s not always about you because the girl who was rude to you this morning may have already had a boyfriend, or may be other reasons. The rejection might not reflect upon you in the slightest.
Another
best thing is you should remember that we all say no sometimes. It’s simply a
fact of life that you can’t say yes to everyone all the time. Just as you have
the right to say no to someone else other people has the right to say no to
you. Acknowledge that the other party is at liberty to make this choice. So try
to be happy. And you should realize that you don’t need external validation for
happiness. External validation feels good,
but it’s nothing compared to the happiness you can achieve when you realize you
don’t need it. You can leave alone.
The feeling of rejection is such a common complaint
that it is a wonder that people don’t stop to think of how meaningless it is.
If you can learn to re-frame it, you’ll never have to feel the sting of
rejection or the paralyzing fear it can cause again. Take a normal example that
maybe you approached a girl and she didn't give you her number. What
if she would have been terrible for you and you saved yourself a lot of
trouble by not talking to her again? Are you getting my point what I want to
say?
So
give up the sorry old story about losing the love of your life and move
forwards. Fight? :D What for, that sounds like teenage rubbish. If they do not
want to be with you, that's tough luck, I’m sure there will be some lucky
person who will be very very happy to be with you.
Thanks
