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Everyone who has love to offer is worthy of receiving the same in return, and when you finally meet the man or woman you are destined to spend the rest of your life with, it will be easy to understand the difference between true love and folly. Take your time when searching for a new love interest, and do not jump too quickly into another relationship. After experiencing rejection, you will know when you have met someone who is truly worthy of your love, and there will be no question in your mind as to how that person feels. It sometimes takes rejection to recognize true love when it comes along, and in time, the painful feelings that lingered from rejection will forever fade into the past.
First let's look at - what is rejection? It looks like someone decides they don't want to spend time, money, or share their heart with us. A person seemingly rejects us in favor of someone or something else. Or so it seems at first glance. What makes rejection seemingly hurt so much is that we perceive it to be a rejection of us personally. As a person, a human being. Rejection is something that everyone has to deal with at one time or another. Even those with a great deal of confidence and self-esteem will ultimately experience rejection at some point in their lives, and for those who have yet to experience rejection, the feeling of rejection is comparable to being slapped in the face, only the pain can be much worse. The emotional pain of rejection lingers much longer than physical pain, and it sometimes leaves obvious scars that affect future relationships. It is possible to overcome rejection and avoid suffering from lingering emotional pain, but it is not necessary to understand why the rejection occurred in order to heal. Those who were once infatuated by a particular individual and were ultimately faced with rejection must only understand they are not necessarily to blame. This is the first step in healing and eventually dealing with the pain of rejection.
Being rejected does not mean you are unattractive, unappealing, or undeserving of love. It simply means that for unknown reasons, the person who was once in your life made the decision to cut ties. In reality, your former love interest might not have wanted to become emotionally involved with anyone, and he or she may have even felt undeserving of the attention and love you had to offer. Everyone has special characteristics, and if you fell for someone who ultimately rejected you, chances are you are the type of person who looks for the good in everyone. You may have been initially attracted to their looks or appreciated something unique about their personality. Maybe you were never really compatible and simply wanted someone to fill a void in your life.
Rejection does not serve you best when it comes from ego, however, when you come from Soul, when you remember that you are the Part of God you really are how could you be rejected? You could only be rejected by someone who has forgotten, for that moment, the Part of God that is inside of them. When the person who knows that they are also Part of God, as you are, connects with you then only acceptance is possible. God will not reject God. The Part of God inside of them can only attract the Part of God inside of you. Now you have found someone truly worthy of you, someone to take to the dance as well as, perhaps, to the dance of life.
Acceptance of rejection will serve you well as you use this opportunity to find someone truly worthy of you, whether for a dance, or as your partner through your life together. Accepting the fact that you are rejected is very difficult and probably will affect yourself esteem. Everyone agrees that rejection possibly hurts you and demands you to have enough braved to accept it. But, you should have to be strong and maintain the dignity in order to realize the person refuse you. When you realize that she or he cannot accept your love, avoid trying to do everything to persuade her or him to love you. The type of this person will absolutely obstruct the independence of her or him. You also cannot build any relationship with her or him even just for a friend. The worst to becoming this type is you will be different character from the real you. Hold the principle of human rights strongly, so you will realize that you do not have any right to force someone like you. On the other side, you also should respect the rights of someone to like you or not. The rejection could be happening because she or he cannot see your qualities at all instead, they may only consider about your performance.
The personality you are insisted maybe loves someone else so, she, or he can't accept you. Alternatively, if the person is loved by many other people and you are not included in her or his type. Think that the individual would not be compatible for you because the right one will not hurt you. Then think about the next step, it would be better if you start to think to recognize another figure. Imagine the possibilities if you are trying to force your feeling to her or him. In most cases, you may will be extremely sad and shock because the person cannot accept you at all. Then try to move on rather than making a huge pain of the entire life. You need to realize that the world is very wide, and you can find many people right there to build a relationship. Find the right person and forget those who do not belong to you and never will be.Thank you for rejecting me, you have brought me closer to my true loved one.
