One Mantra To success - Neither Hard Work Nor Smart Work....!!

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After coming from Jaipur, Rajasthan I’ve watched may movies. Some were old and some were new. And yesterday night I was watching R….Rajkumar.  Every one of us loves watching movies. And indubitably, we like the ones where there’s this guy who looks so sad and terrified that the sky might just fall on his head, loses at something over and over again till he finally gets the inspiration to work extremely hard and manages to succeed.

But, reality is far from what these movies show. In real life, if you try and try and try and try and don’t succeed, it probably means that it is not your cup of tea. As a kid, I had friends who were deemed intelligent by everyone around because they had real impressive report cards. My story, well, was just the opposite. As a kid, this wreaked havoc on my self esteem. Believe me, I tried. I read books, and did all the stuff they did. The only reason I passed the exams was because I had an eidetic memory.

One day, a friend suggested that I pursue my hobby of painting and sketching. Taking this advice seriously, I went ahead with it, and got really good. Even today when I get a chance of painting, I don’t leave it. Some day before my cousin Sarika asked for drawing some pictures on drawing sheet. I’ve done it with the help of my brother Dinesh Kumar Sahrawat. Underdogs like me exist. They are not fiction. But what is unreal is the winning. Look at one of my school Rocky. He fails the first time. The second time round, he and his adversary come ready. And then he finally wins. More often than not, underdogs don’t win. In fact, you become classified an underdog only if you fail at something. When incessant trials result in failure, it does not mean you are not smart enough or you did not work hard enough. It just means there is something else you are good at. It just means your strengths lie elsewhere. If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it’ll always fail.

You will face challenges. How you deal with them is what counts. Challenges are not to be tackled like a raging bull. They are to be managed. In every field of life management is necessary. You have to play your strengths. Every person is different as is every startup. I can say that everyone is unique or original. If you are planning on starting a new company, remember one thing that it will not be like any other on this planet. Your products might be similar to some in the market. But your company will be unique in that it will have its own distinct pulse. It will have unique growth and will have its own personality. Don’t be sad if your company does not work like your competitor. Everything’s fine as long as the work gets done.  Your company might start working at 11 am and stop by 6 pm, but you end up completing twice as much work as your competitor, you really have no reason to feel low.

There is only one mantra to success, and it is neither hard work nor smart work – you just have to play your strengths the way it would prove advantageous for you. Here I’m not saying that leave hard work. No don’t leave it. If you will play with your strengths than you must have hard work without any smart work….!!

Sachin Tendulkar The Greatest Batsman Of Our Generation....!!

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So much is happening in the world except I and my progress. I am sitting on the same seat with the same proportions of movement in my emotions, sentiments and excitements but some happenings in the world are exciting me too much.

As I sit down to pen these lines I get the feeling that the person about whom I am going to write is probably the most beloved son of this great nation. Even if someone tries to include the life and performances of this great soul in an article, I am sure they are bound to fail as this man is beyond the scope of imagination.

There is no doubt that Sachin Tendulkar arguably the best batsman this world has ever seen.Starting as a 16 year old boy, Tendulkar is at the zenith of success and amazingly his hunger wasn’t seemed to end. After Starting the career against a formidable Pakistan side there has been no looking back for Sachin Tendulkar as he still continues to create history every time he walks on to the field. Most appearances in ODI’s, most ODI hundreds, most test hundreds, most international hundreds, most runs in test and one day cricket history, most runs in a calendar year, most runs in any world cup, the pages of record books would prove to be insufficient to record the achievements of this cricketing Maestro.

Whenever an idol is made in our life, the reason of it is his qualities that you want to possess in you but you are still farther from it. You respect your idol because he has achieved it with lots of hard work and dedication. The perseverance and patience that he went through a long time is what interests you. Once upon a time, when you used to tell someone the person from whom you take inspiration from or the person whom you see as your idol, what you used to get from your friends was a big tap on your back or lots of praises for selecting the best idol in your life. But, now-a-days, if you'll tell someone that the particular person is your idol in life, he will start making negative comments on him, abuse his previous works, starts telling you every possible reasons to prove that the person is not deserving to be at the place where he is and for the most, he will keep making fun and dig at you for selecting that respective person as your idol. But, for me, I don't care for anyone's view once I am determined that "Yes, this is the person whom I see as my idol". And one such person whom I see as the second best idol and inspiration  in my life after Mr. Amitabh Bachchan, its SACHIN TENDULKAR and also MS Dhoni.

I find fitness and stamina the biggest drawback I have in me. But when I count the number of runs that he has scored by running on the pitch, I feel ashamed of myself. Even at the age of 40, he runs like a new athlete and tries to reach the crease before that diplomatic ball reaches, and I at 22, starts panting because of exertion. If I find that I am good at something, I become over-confident about it for some time, but seeing Sachin's consistency, I have got to learn that even if the world bows in front of you, you should work harder just as you are performing the task for the first time to prove some judges that you deserve the place. :-) I have learnt from him how to ignore haters rather than giving them a special place in our life.

I would at last recall what former cricketer Navjot Singh Siddhu once said about Tendulkar-

“Jaha har sar jhukh jaye wahi mandir hai, Jaha har nadi sama jaye wahi samandar hai aur jo har jung jeet jaye wahi SACHIN TENDULKAR hai”

-where every head gets bowed is a Temple, Where every river gets converged is a sea, And who gets victory in every battle is SACHIN TENDULKAR.

I get a personalized photo from Sachin Tendulkar after the retirement. 
It is the first time an Indian sportsperson has been given the nation's highest civilian honour. Sachin Tendulkar is also the youngest ever recipient of the award. SACHIN TENDULKAR will become the first sportsperson to be conferred the Bharat Ratna, India’s higest civilian award. The Prime Minister’s Office made the announcement hours after SACHIN TENDULKAR the curtains on a 24 year international career.

Thank you Sachin. For being Sachin. Continue to inspire, ignite and invoke. The Sachinism in each one of us so that we become a nation of believers.

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Don’t Leave Me Alone Tonight....!!

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The cold breeze….!!

The breeze around here is cold tonight.

Don’t leave me alone tonight.

Your deadly body….!!

Your deadly body and your deadly Style.

You are God for me tonight.

The cold breeze….!!

The moon is so bring this full moon night.

The moonlight too sighs at its sight.

I bestow….!!

I bestow all my styles upon you.

Don’t leave me alone tonight.

The cold breeze….!!

The stars are playing a sweet melody.

Today I sway for you in tune with it.

I will take it….!!

I will take it if it agrees.

You are God for me tonight.

The cold breeze….!!

That Was Salty Milk Now It's Salty Tea:- A Sweet Salty Touching Love Story....!!

66th BLOG POST -->>

Today evening I reached back to home at New Delhi after a travelling of about 10 hours. I was out of Delhi from last 10 days. During that time I visited many places. It was a long time that I was far from blog, twitter, whatsapp as well as with internet connection. During the travelling I was reading a story written by Kiran Kumar.

 It remained me a real story of salty milk testing that was happened with me about 7 years ago when I was in a village with grandmother (nani). At that time there was no light in village during night time. That night I asked her for sugar for milk because sometimes I don’t like milk without sugar. She said: “Beta sugar nhi hai ander white daba rkha hai us mai se bura dal le”.

I go inside the jhopadi and I put some salt (I think its bura) in milk and after some time I taste that milk. So because of salt milk taste converted into salty. So after taste I say “nani ye sugar kadwa (salty) kb se ho gya.” She replied that “Beta aajkal ….!!” Can’t remember that dialog properly….!!

Here below is given a salty tea love story. I think you will enjoy during reading this story….!! :-)

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised.

          They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home. Suddenly he asked the waiter: "would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."

          Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but, still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously : why you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea ,just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my home town, I miss my home town so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.

          That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her far away hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.

          They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him!Thanks to his salty coffee!

          Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life...

And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it. After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said:" My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt it was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication!

          I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything.. Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste..But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again". Her tears made the letter totally wet.

          Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It's sweet. She replied.

          Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

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Capture The Best Moments of Your Life....!!

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Recently, one of the most celebrate festival of India ended. Dipwali :-). It has always been very astonishing for me to understand the faith and trust and devotion of people in God that makes them stand in line for hours to get just a glance of an idol. I believe in trusting just one idol and that too, the one which is permanent. Rooted in some temple or the one at my home. Every thing that comes for our good is also destined to leave us. It teaches us a lesson that generally, we, human beings, fail to understand. We have the tendency of accepting only positive nods but any thing thats against our wish, we fail to understand and accept it as a part of life. A human being only needs win against loss, good against bad and acception against rejection. But festivals as this helps us to understand the real meaning of life.

I’m thinking n I’m thinking n I’m thinking..Too straight forward but must say "An open minded thought"..... Last one month was spending only in travelling through trains and buses to various parts of Haryana, Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh and Delhi.  It was nice to come Shahpura, Jaipur and Jaipur-Delhi Highway after 7 years. Last time I was come to Shahpura in my friend’s wedding. Spending three days in Jaipur with friends and their family in Khatipura, Jaipur. And before Jaipur I was in Rest House, Karnal, Haryana for three days with my cousins and brother. In last one decade I’ve attained most of Rajasthani wedding function. I’ve enjoyed so much these functions more than any trip or with college friends. Here I’ll not describe my journey moments.

        During travelling to various parts of Rajasthan, there was no problem in understanding their local language where normally they speak Rajasthani Language. I have no problem in understanding and speaking in Rajasthani Language b’coz I’m familiar much more than Haryanvi Language. Even today I’ve a collection of 700 Rajasthani songs but in Haryanvi only 16 selected songs of Haryanvi Chitrahar. And with this journey I’ve completed 3000 natural photos just within two years captured at different places. :-)

          During listening bollywood song “Yaar Badal Na Jaana – Talaash” you can see most historical place of Jaipur and Nahargrah. Above picture is of Nahargrah Fort.

"Khush Mizaji Bhi Mashoor Thi Hamari, Sadgi Bhi Kamal Hai......!!

Hum Shararti Bhi Inteha K Thay, Ab Sanjeedgi Bhi Be-Misaal Hain......!!"

Life is changing its phase. It’s becoming happier. But by circumstances or situations? No. By thoughts and its process. It always changes magnitude of mood and the proficiency with which the mind works. I am always subjective to myself and then the people around me. A race is always there in life. Though I prefer the one with myself. Neither the achievement of someone makes me jealous nor the failure of someone makes me happy. Whatever happens to me is by what happens with me. I am so self-obsessed, right? Yes Right….!! :-) But don't you think that there comes a time or there should come a time when one should start believing that someone else deserves better than what we achieve? No? How rude! :-) Yes, for me, it should. All of us know the amount of effort and struggle we put into things that are for our benefits. We know the consequences of efforts and also its side-effects. Yes, in the case if you don't sleep and only put efforts for your targets. :-)

           If you can't respect someone else's aim and dream and if you can't respect their success, you don't deserve to be successful. Even if time is favoring you today, tomorrow you will be surely shown the door towards failure. And you never know when the time might change for you. Time favors no one if one tends to be slightly out-of-the-mark. Remember this. You are never the best person to win a race until and unless you are the most passionate out of all the contestants running with you. if anyone else who have done better than you is also with you, remember, you should run to win the race but keep in mind, if the best person isn't winning it, you does not become the Champion. He even after losing remains to be Champion, it's just that it was your day today and not his. 

          Its hard to accept the truth that the thing we loved once will never be with us anymore but with time, every wound gets healed. So we should remain adamant when we know that leaving something will take us higher, in any case, our decisions shouldn't change. We should leave the environment, people, comfort and go for the hiking, that's tough and difficult but its something that provides comfort and ease for life. When I meet great celebrities whom I am in awe for, I start feeling bad when the time comes to leave. Even the celebrities know that the person standing with me is in tears from within but they know the factual of life. For them this is the standard of life that has to be followed. Otherwise, they meet new fans every day and if they start getting attached to each one of them, their progress will stop. 

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Champions Of Free Markets: Narendra Modi And Margaret Thatcher....!!

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          As the 2014 election turns into a national referendum on the popular but polarising politician, many question to come up again and again, not merely in Delhi, Mumbai and Bangalore, but equally in London, Brussels and Washington. Some day before I was reading about comparisons between Narendra Modi and former Britain’s Iron Lady and PM Margaret Thatcher on Economic Reformer.

           Margaret Thatcher was Britain’s first female prime minister and served three consecutive terms in office. She was one of the dominant political figures of 20th century. In India, the death of former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher has sparked comparisons  between the “Iron Lady” and Gujarat Chief Minister Narendra Modi.
She was a British nationalist and champion of free-market capitalism. As a politician she left a divisive legacy in her native U.K. and revamped her country’s declining economy in a process that also triggered social unrest.
 
          Narendra Modi, chief minister of India’s western Gujarat state, has presided over an economic boom in his region. Foreign investors say he has cut down on red tape and improved infrastructure in a country where red-tape-ism torpedoes many business deals and has held back economic growth.

          He hit many notes that would have been familiar to Margaret Thatcher. In many speeches to business executives in New Delhi, Ahmadabad and Kolkata. Which are widely seen as part of Narendra Modi’s attempts to kick-start a run for prime minister in 2014? As a member of the opposition Bharatiya Janata Party, talked about how governments should play only a small role in an economy, a dig at the national ruling Congress party’s massive social welfare programs. He regularly cited examples of entrepreneurial achievement in Gujarat as evidence of the power of individual choice as an economic driver. Margaret Thatcher would’ve liked this, too.

           Champions of free markets are hoping  Narendra Modi can emulate Margaret Thatcher, who took over the U.K. government in 1979 amid a broken economy and labor strife. Some day ago a Indian-based analyst at KPMG LLP, Navin Agrawal said “I think he’s our Iron Man.” Here these comparisons are valid and I think there is a lot in common between them. In his inclination for small government and a high level of governance, in that respect he’s close to Thatcher. Narendra Modi on his Twitter account tweeted this: “Inspirational leader of immense stature & fortitude, Baroness Margaret Thatcher was an epoch maker. A sad loss for UK and the world.”

          The parallels between Narendra Modi and Margaret Thatcher didn’t go unnoticed by others on social media.  After Gujarat election we were listening in social media that in the 1980’s there were President Reagan and PM Margaret Thatcher, who forever changed the world we live in. Now, it is Honorable Narendra Modi’s turn to make a similar impact. A pro-Modi group based in the U.S. Indian Americans for Freedom said in a note congratulating him for his re-election in Gujarat state elections in December.
But here a question is arises that is a comparison between Narendra Modi and Margaret Thatcher appropriate? Regardless of his commitment to free-market reforms, Narendra Modi is likely to find a job on a national scale a lot more trying than managing Gujarat, which is home to some of India’s most entrepreneurial people.

          The government of Prime Minister Manmohan Singh unveiled a series of overhauls in September, including allowing foreign companies to invest in Indian supermarkets for the first time. Many states opposed the move, saying it would kill local businesses and have refused to implement the law. Narendra Modi’s response at the time hardly showed him to be a free marketer of the Chicago school of economics. While he didn’t reject the proposal completely, he said India needs to modernize its smaller industries before allowing in the Wal-Marts of this world. His party, meanwhile, opposed the reforms.

           But there’s another way Narendra Modi and Margaret Thatcher could be compared. Both figures polarized opinion in their countries. She sidelined trade unions through sweeping privatizations. Hundreds of people died in the military campaign she spearheaded to retake the Falkland Islands from Argentina. In the U.K., some went as far as cheering her death. And here Narendra Modi faces criticism for his ties to right-wing Hindu groups, even from some BJP allies. Critics also say he didn’t do enough to stop anti-Muslim violence during communal violence in Gujarat in 2002. He has denied any wrongdoing.
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Narendra Modi- Follow Him If You Want To Be Something Like Him In Society....!!

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Last Monday I was in Keshav Kunj (RSS),New Delhi for meeting with Shree Rupesh Kumar ji. On that day we were discussing about the politics game of Haryana and Delhi as well as ABVP won some sheets in Delhi Chatar Sangh Election. Suddenly he asked me about Narendra Modi and Position of BJP in Delhi. Then I say “Desh Ki Halat Bhot Kharab Hai… Manmohan ji Ko PM ka Pad Dia Hua Hai Lekin Power Nhi” and about Delhi Mr. Arvind Kejriwal is saying 46% population of delhi likes AAP and 29% BJP and remaining to 25% Congress. But something depends on 29^th September relly in Japani Park, Rohini.  2014 Elections are coming close. But something depends on Delhi election going in few 2 months later.

Now discussing about  NAMO means Mr. Narendra Modi. What's so special about this man who once used to sell chai and is now the most preferred candidate for the post of Prime Minister? I know the effect that this man has brought in the state he's ruling. Mr. Modi has been credited with helping Gujarat’s economic development during his 12 years as the state’s chief minister. Gujarat is the fifth-largest contributor to India’s gross domestic product, accounting for 7.61% of the country’s economy, according to data from India’s Planning Commission.

Recently I heard so much about him that I wanted to shift to Gujarat to actually see what he has done. But what I like about him is the way he has handled the whole scenario in which he was being caught. Everyone started seeing Modi as a rioter, terrorist and the worst man in the game called politics some 12 years ago. Anyone, in place of Modi, would have gone out of race or could have never built his name the way Modi has made. Modi just changed his whole agenda in the eyes of people from Hindutva to development, education, industrialization, youth power etc. This helped him move out from the image of Muslim-haters and build one of the developers of our nation.

          This is the best example for me whenever I find myself complicated and stuck in a situation where I feel that I am being dishonored in public or a group of people whom I consider to be deserving does not see me as contender as a person. I immediately get the power of facing them again with new parameters and ideologies. Though I don't leave my take because of which I got eliminated from their list of favorites but I make it sure that my new ideas will make them like me. I remember a time when I left my Data Structure External Practical to attend Panchayat in Village which was against me and I had no friends because all left me due to a major misunderstanding. I didn't beg anyone to be with me. On that my parents say that this village is not for you, you must go out from here and do something good.  That day become so special for me and one incident come in my mind is that on that day I was weeping in presence of my parents in my small room. This small incident changed my whole life. When next day I left home for college, throughout the journey of an hour, I kept thinking of how to change the whole scenario in the evening itself. Even then I had this man in my mind as an example. That evening I performed and let everyone know that I am not what they think me as, but I am someone whom they like to be with. And since then I only got friends in Village. That was my first victory of my life in any public issue.

       

The example of this man shows that even if the whole world neglects us and even if there's proof that we have been a criminal, betrayal or not a nice person, we have a chance to be in the public again. I am saying this not in regards of your relation with a person or two but when the whole society boycotts you. It is then that life turns nothing less than hell. I have seen many who want to start blog and always asked me about what tips should they follow to be in this game of blogging, quitting the hobby and going back to live their previous life. The biggest problem with them has been the defame that they went through which made them feel that they can never again stand back on their legs and write a new post. They just stopped writing their thoughts and left the person like me to lead without any colleagues. This is bad. I know a writer who wrote a gay love story. He was of a very small town and hence his village didn't accept the book. Because of fear of not getting accepted again, he quit writing and is back to his job. So sad! Even I am being thrashed 1000 of times but I have always been able to stand up again because I have the courage to face the dissatisfied and irritated crowd.

   I am not saying that Modi is an innocent person nor am I showing support for him and his party. I just wanted to tell the amount of modification he bought in his conduct that even at the national level, he has been able to manipulate the mind of people who clearly remembers the whole crisis in which Gujarat went through after all that happened in Godhra riots. This is how even we can stand up again on stage and face the same crowd which threw rotten eggs and tomatoes on us for speaking something that they didn't believe in. It's just the talent that we will have to skill ourselves in. And once when we become perfect in this game of Modi-ism, there will never come a moment when we will be scared in facing the crowd, public or audience. We will always have the confidence that even if we end up doing something wrong today, we have the chance to build our image tomorrow. For this, Narendra Modi will always be my example and this is the only reason why I watch him speaking in rallies and meetings. :-) Do try to know the whole issue from your father, he'll tell you and then you will also pass on his example in your circle. :-)

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Information Technology - Indian IT Engineers in Hell....!!

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        IT industry is the only bright spot if we see rise of Indian economy over last 5-6 years, rest I don't think there is any other sector which stands apart barring maybe we can say auto sector where India is trying hard to become hub for small cars(but that still has long way to go. The Indian IT sector has shown the nation and the government "power of general class". Since government is playing vote bank politics by giving reservations and killing competition which is infact even more important in rising of good breed of officials and bureaucrats.

With no reservations at all and jobs based on merit and knowledge, IT industry has shown the nation and political class the power of general class. With good salary packages to performing individuals it has been truly competitive economic sector. Other advantage with the IT sector is it's billing model, as it bills the employees in USD's but pays in INR, thus the IT companies enjoys high profit margins, and this rises when rupee value falls in international markets.

  In this post actually I thought of why not Indian IT companies change their compensation model where variable component of an employee should vary with exchange rate of US dollar and project profit margins. I think this would help in bringing even more competitiveness in employees for making project rating better in order to increase their variable component and thus their take-home. Their are/might be limitations for this billing model with respect to daily exchange rate fluctuations, but for that case we can see the average for a quarter of year or the variable pay cycle applicable so that employees might not feel cheated or underpaid. This model would raise the work done by the payroll department though.
       
         Indian IT industry has withstood the 2008 recession well, All thanks to the cash pile and the margins and the meager pay salaries over the last two years, The reason for coming out even strongly is the cost cutting measures ranging from sending fewer people on-site, some price negotiations, giving no salary hike for two conductive years to employees (on name of recession), firing people secretly so that stock does not plummets etc, etc, this list goes on.

Putting together these all measures have been very good for the biggies in Indian IT industry like - TCS, Infosys, and Wipro etc. These companies have lots of people on their bench hence lowering the bid price in recession time helped in increasing the percentage of billed employees.

This above scenario has not been possible for mid tier IT vendors like, Patni, Tech Mahindra, Mastek all of them still showing decrease in profits YoY, The reason is simple The biggies of Indian IT are eating their food by bidding at the same price of these mid tier companies, thus taking even smaller projects on which the mid tier IT Companies depends. Since the potential client is now well aware of these biggies they prefer to give new projects to these rather than mid tier companies which is the biggest area of concern for these smaller companies.

They can't compete with these biggies thanks to the bench strength and the cash pile of these bigger companies, Now in such a scenario where there looks no hope for smaller and mid tier IT Companies, the best method for coping is to be acquired by the biggies or bid to these biggies at even lesser rate for further outsourcing as looks rare possibility as margins are already wafer thin, adding further to IT companies owes is the increase in Visa fees by US Government.

        Thus after Indian IT comes out of the recession completely we can possibly see consolidation in Indian IT space. This would definitely help in making global companies which can compete with likes of Accenture, IBM much more efficiently and effectively. Hence it would not be surprise if news about one of the biggies acquire a mid tier or smaller IT companies which would definitely help in the niche domains where the smaller IT companies work.

Hence I can conclude that time has finally arrived when we can see consolidation in Indian IT industry which would definitely make Indian IT companies competency even bigger and more powerful. Thus offering some serious competition to US biggies like Accenture and IBM.

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Khud Ki Band Bajne Se Bachaayea Khud Ko....!!

61th BLOG POST -->>

         Don’t you find life to always be filled with stress? Doesn't it seem like there is always something that happens which encompasses our entire attention, and thus drain our positive energy? As our society grows more and more complex, finding true peace becomes more like trying to find an oasis in the desert. My life is a busy one as well, as running a company and all of the stress & demands that comes with it, definitely takes its toll over time. Therefore, I wanted to take this opportunity to share with you .

 

Hundred of things goes in life. You never have control over some of them. I always see things very passionately and hence I love life and the way it flows. When things come, it comes Chchappad Phaad Ke and when it goes, it goes Pairon Ke Neechey Ki Dharti Hilaa Ke. If things remain average anyhow, you can say that its your sheer luck. Efforts are always been put in any thing that is been done but its not necessary that you will get the same results. Life shatters. And once we see that our life is not in its momentum and the track has been lost, we tend to start losing trust over ourselves. We are the best performer for us till then but once when we see that we are not receiving what we expect, we start cursing ourselves for all the little negatives we find in ourselves then. We start doubting every thing around us. We think that our parents aren't supporting us. We feel that our friends are misusing us. We feel that the teachers are purposely harassing us. We feel that the God has stopped considering us as his favorite child. 

             It may be possible that the things we are thinking and assuming are really happening. But what after it? Should we keep discarding the pleasures of life because of these few things that are not in place even after we have given it all that we had? This is the time when we should turn towards peace. Peace is the only aspect of life which makes us know what really our life is and what really we need from it. Peace makes us realize the true potential we have in us. No one else can tell us what we are good in until and unless we don't know what we are good in. And until and unless we don't talk to ourselves, a solution never comes out. The suggestion and guidance of others definitely works but only when we decide to implement it in our course. We have God in us as said by several Holy books. But do we give time to it? No. Never. We always keep on spending time over Internet and online chatting with our friends. We talk with others. Do we ever take out time and talk to ourselves for at least 15 minutes? Hardly. And until and unless we will not do this, we will never come out of the problems and unwanted struggles of life and the plethora of idiotic thoughts that capture our mind.

              The first method of finding peace is already discussed above. Give time to yourself. Talk to your inner self in a peaceful environment. Second best way is to meditate. Meditation is one easy and best solution to get rid of all the concentration-distracting powers. When you sit with your spine straight and eyes closed and take the name of God in iterations by continuously poking your mind to stay at the name of God rather than thinking and presuming things, you find a totally new and fresh world after 15 minutes of it. You start loving this life. You feel as if you were in heaven for 1000 years and have come out of it just now to feel a world that was in your imagination and desire but never with you; even when you were here itself 15 minutes ago. That is the power of meditation. Since a month, whenever I am getting time, I tune into DW Tv during evening time. In Global Program teach us how to concentrate on things that matter to us and our soul.  How to enjoy when you are alone? What is going around us etc.

                                            At Pacific Mall, New Delhi

              The last method is to visit the place that you love the most. No, I am not talking about Dehradun, Massouri, Kempty Fall etc. where you will get your bank balance affected which will give rise to future tensions. But visit the place in your town/city itself. Few weeks ago, I went to Bhiwani, Rohtak, Maham and some villages of these areas, Recently, Pacific Mall, JLN Stadium, and Lotus Temple in Delhi near to me to clean my mind. I was in lots of trauma. I am still in it but I have control over myself now. Then I was feeling dejected and broken. My friends left me alone when I thought that they would preach me quotes that I am already familiar with (:-)). Everything is out of place. I thought a lot about running away from the Failures but it seemed to be difficult. At last, I made a plan.

              I went to visit these places mentioned above. Roamed a lot. Ate nicely. Enjoyed with friend. Purchased only one thing what I wanted to. But that was my friend's favorite. I didn't care about money that day. And since then, I am at least in my aware. I know now what I have to do. I still need some time alone and hence I am trying my best to not meet people because all of them will talk about their lives in which I am currently not interested. All of them will ask about my Failures. They will tell me about the changes that has happened in their life. And seriously speaking, my life is currently in a mode where it needs change. A monotonous life has killed enthusiasm. Though my life is inspiring for me. I don't find any glitches in my daily routines but still I needed a change for some time. I needed rest. I needed it for survival. And I am resting by cutting off from the whole world which I don't think cares much about me. And since I have taken this step, life has started giving me surprises and the graph has started moving upwards. It will reach zenith once again and things would be best again. I know this.

At Campty Fall , Massoorie, Utrakhand  

             And as the mind is in order because of one of the three steps that I took, I now have all the plan how I have to move ahead from here. How I have to manage studies plus the blogging plus friendships plus avoiding so-called friendships plus giving time to parents plus doing everything that I usually do. And from here, I also want to take my life to a new level. For that, I will do anything to get at position where my life will be secured. Currently, its little see-sawing. I will stabilize it soon. I will have to take some risky steps. I am just prepared/preparing for it. Let's see what's in store for me. But the purpose of writing this post was to tell all of you the three ways I prefer for cleansing my mind and coming out of the struggling phase. I have also uploaded a picture of mine that was clicked at Pacific Mall, New Delhi. You will yourself say that I can never look better than this. The face seems to have no tension and pain but it had. But the process of cleansing the mind made everything look as it's the best part of my life. :-) This is all for today.
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What is Love.... My Feeling About It....!!

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          Being around people who have relationship with their other half has brought me one step closer to actually understanding them. Relationships are indeed a roller coaster ride and it is never a bed of roses. TRUST ME when I tell you that. There is one incident I love and the view of it is just wow like wow wow….!!
         
           Love is an eternal feeling, I know. All of us fall in love at least once in our life. Even the Burkha-clad girls who are kept all their life in a bedroom knows what love is and praise God that their Prince Charming will come the day they'll be ready for marriage. Even a child before his birth starts loving his mother. Well, I am not talking about the love and devotion that the parent-child shares. I am talking about the one that all of us crave for. Does the wait for love ever ends? Yes, it ends. Not with the person whom we want but with the person who's suitable for us. They may be the same person but generally they aren't. I have always talked against love because it gives pain, either regularly, occasionally or all at once, in the end. 99% of the love stories have sad-ending. I don't want any more stories in my life that ends with tears and regrets hence I always prefer to be away from what we often call- Love.
       
          But what when you get into a relationship with someone that's above Love. I don't have the word for it. The person with whom I have this feeling for asked me, “You always said that you don't love me then why often do you keep saying that you love me". Because no writer, no creator, no grammar naazi, no literature master ever went into the intensity of this feeling to which he could have named something. There's friendship. There's love. There's admiration. There's respect. There's devotion. But there's no name given to this what I am fallen into. I, if some day, will get enough talented and learned, I would give this feeling a word. A word that will let us know what was Sudama's approach for Krishna, Meera's approach for Krishna and Mohammed's approach for Allah. I hope my feeling will have a name.

          In last  post I write -People call it a love affair while other call it a relationship with benefits while some may call it Many-Nights-Stand. But will I ever be able to clarify what my heart has named the relationship as? No. Will I ever go to defend myself? No. This feeling shall remain in heart forever. Only with the last breathe, when my soul will leave the body will this feeling go away from me. But till I am alive and a part of this world, this shall stay with me. I never say that love happens with just a person. It can happen with two at a time while with many at different times in our life but whenever it is, it gives a meaning to life. Some die for it, some cry for it and some like me, try for it. Some gets successful, some fails, some gets defamed while some become Shah Jahaan.. A person like me never gets accolade but live all his life in loving an eternal person with a beautiful body and a confused mind.

           Saying it in front of the world is not easy. Love in my nation, my country and my society is not so easy. Love here is a forbidden and will remain to be. Only if I could have owned the person and the person would have had the same feeling for me, everything would have been easy. Really? No. Then there comes a segment where the partner is being judged with qualifications, beauty, money, past etc. You are hurled with questions and you get tired of answering. I will not but I will never be able to break the heart of those who are my creators. But I can fight till late. I can fight till I have inner power and belief and hope. I will not run away from society to conquer what is mine but I will invite society in the soul-meeting ceremony. I am not the one who'll hide his angel from the world. For me, it is beautiful. For me, its divine. For me, its mine. :-)

          May be this birth is not meant for me to love and conquer the person. May be this birth is meant for me to shed tears and wait for the results to come as the mind processes. May be this birth will remain unsuccessful throughout. But the power of my heart which tells me to keep devoting myself to the one who gives me energy, life, smile, substance, meaning, improvement, commitment, company etc, will always stay strong and the same. It will make me a revolutionist if I start telling people what I think of it. But will I ever do this? No. Already the heart beats every minute for the one, already every breathe tells me that all has been achieved, life is in flow, just a leg of the stool is missing, go get that one which is yours but still not with you, and live life with all that you dream to be yours.

         I always asked people in long distance relationship that how they survive. They gave me many reasons but I never understood them. Today when I find the person near me but yet too far away from me, I realize why being physically away and mentally together is more of a spiritual love than being in each other's arm but yet not together. When I shall look into the eyes, it should reflect me. When I shall hold the hand, it should grab me with tighter grip. When I shall kiss, I must find myself being the slave and not the master in this act of love. I want the attention. I want the preference. I want the presence of God near me. I find the one as an angel in life and as angels are sent by God, the person is no less than God for me. I don't mind the rumors, I don't mind the rejection, I don't mind the abuses of society and elders. I mind my life and its desires. And the greatest desire is always unaccomplished. The job is to complete the imperfection and get the life that's mine.

          My feeling is yet undefined. But I understand it. May be this can keep me away from a permanent partner for a long period of time. I am ready to stay alone. Let this thing make people call me someone who are not lovable. I am ready to be known as loser. But whenever I would get, I will get the one I have the feeling for or someone exactly like the person I have feeling for. Though the latter looks impossible but the former is possible. It's difficult. You can't control the feelings and mindset of another but you can make the one part of your meditation. I hope my concentration will magnetize the whole environment towards me and the person will automatically find only me around the body that is permanent. I don't know whether this feeling will be understood by the one and the people but it shall always remain with me.. Till I live.. Till I die. And Till I Come Back With a Re-Birth. :-)

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Falling In Love With You....!!

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               This post comes in my mind when I was talking with my teacher Arun sir, My friend Ankur Pratap Singh and Abhishek Asht. Arun sir, Who is something much more than a teacher? I’ll say he is a close friend but I call him sir and always share his personal problem. Especially today he was talking about his love Preety. Even today I was talking with Mr. Ankur Pratap Singh, was a classmate in my college reminds me same thing about love. He is a good friend little different form crowd. You always say:-" Baba, Aap Mahan Hai". ha ha ha I don't what so special in me ki I"m Mahan. And he always reminds me of Govind Sharma. Both they were similar in using these words.Some other friend also uses these words.  Even Abhishek Asht, a full of comedian… I like your child like nature.
               I am just shocked to see many of my friends from last 4 years getting involved in a forced relationship and then crying for rest of their life for the break up between them and many of them trying to commit suicide and failing each time. I am happy that they fail. At least God is trying to preach the message to live and suffer rather than end and rest. I hope my friends will get brain and every one in this world thinking of ending the life because of your partner will Grow up. There are many more things to do in life. I don't know the correct grammar of English, still I blog. Why? To keep myself engaged with something and be happy. My readers read my blog and share their views about it which makes me more-than-happy. So, try to do something else in your life and love it rather than loving a person who has no value for you in his/her life.
                 Falling in love maybe one of the greatest feelings ever. There is an actual chemical process that happens to a person who is falling in love. All of the senses have a greater intensity. Colors seem brighter, sounds more resonant and smells more powerful when you are in love. When you are with your lover there is no greater feeling in the world, and when you're not you spend all your time thinking of each other. Falling in love is truly an awesome feeling.

Whenever I'm around you, 

I feel like life's complete. 

I don't know what to say, 

But you make my heart beat. 

I'm scared to say hello,

But it hurts to say good-bye. 

Whenever I'm around you, 

I feel like life's complete. 

I don't know what to say, 

But you make my heart beat. 

Why is it when I look in your eyes,I see the love burning inside me.

why is it when you hug me,

the world melts with us.

I'm not scared to love you.

I'm okay when your around.

You've given my heart a soundtrack.

I happen to like the sound.

To you I might just be a little boy,

but give me the one chance.

I could show you a whole new world.

So take my hand and let me lead this dance.

Sometimes I wonder how I feel about you,

Scared of these feelings because it’s still new

I catch myself thinking of the best way to share,

Hoping you’ll return my confession showing you

                 “Wo dukh jyada nahi deta hum us ki choti choti baten bhi jyada feel kartey hain. Same kaam koi aur shakhs kare tu bura nahi lagta....... problem actions main nahi apni feelings main hoti hai. Insan disturb tu buhut ziada hota hai but we should always try to move forward. ja chuka wo kabhi nahi aye ga but life main use replace karne wala koi na koi zaroor aa jata hai so better is to find the right person instead of wasting time for the last one.”

         
             People call it a love affair while other call it a relationship with benefits while some may call it Many-Nights-Stand. But will I ever be able to clarify what my heart has named the relationship as? No. Will I ever go to defend myself? No. This feeling shall remain in heart forever. Only with the last breathe, when my soul will leave the body will this feeling go away from me. But till I am alive and a part of this world, this shall stay with me. I never say that love happens with just a person. It can happen with two at a time while with many at different times in our life but whenever it is, it gives a meaning to life. Some die for it, some cry for it and some like me, try for it. Some gets successful, some fails, some gets defamed while some become Shah Jahaan.. A person like me never gets accolade but live all his life in loving an eternal person with a beautiful body and a confused mind.

At last I’ll say only that for achieving your love, you have to wait for months, years and sometimes, for the whole life. When there is a true love, there is a struggle from both side. Before that, they lived just as friends. Love is not about getting physically involved with each other. But, it is about getting the person in any circumstances. But when you get him/her, you get it wholly. :-)

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Awesome Moment On Teacher's Day Celebration....!!

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             It's Teacher's Day- A day that's specifically meant for teachers. And today I was present in BM Education Society for teacher’s day celebration. It was completely awesome. Today I got a chance to come on stage in front of full staff and near about eight hundred students sitting in front of me. I was invited by Suman the president of BM Education Society Clapping of students was touching my ears and I was forward to stage with a peaceful smile. It was nice to listen a speech given by National President of Republican Welfare Congress, Dr. Naresh Jangra. Whole day I was staff members.
These days are mostly special for those who are out of their academics and don't get much chance to interact with their teachers. For them, its a day when they can call or talk to their teachers or just remember them. For us, it is like a suffering that we have to deal every day. Yes, teachers feel that they are to be respected by default irrespective of what they are to us or how do they conduct themselves to us. This is where a wall between the students and teacher builds up. This is from where one starts hating teacher and teacher starts taking revenges of not being loved.

             One thing that I have learnt in life is- Learn. Learning is the best way of progressing. Until and unless you keep your arrogance and egoism in prioritization, you will never be able to learn new aspects. Life does not have limits. It is vast, dynamic and interminable. What has limits are just and just our thoughts. If we align them to infinity. If we customize them from 0 to a number that is imaginary only by God then we will get a chance to subscribe ourselves to many things. The basic example of understanding what I am trying to convey is our college lecture. The day we keep ourselves intrigued in mobile or sleep or chit-chatting with our friends on the last bench, we know nothing about what happened in class. But the day we sit on any of the front benches and listen to what teacher is trying to make us understand, we get the concept so easily that we feel as if the topic is made for children and why does it even have a place in our syllabus. Right? Now you understood. An example is must when I talk. Hai na? :-)

             Not everyone is excellent in every part of his/her life. Even if one seems to be almost perfect, there are some defects and things that are below par. Or if someone is not very good in things that you do or see him doing, he might be best in something that you are still unaware of. Hence always keep an approach of asking people as to what they love doing or they are good in. Everyone loves boasting about their good qualities. And then don't skip it by saying that you aren't interested in the particular thing. Learn some basic features through them and start trying things. Learn it. And you will find a profound reason to live. Just breathing, eating, talking, surfing internet and sleeping is not THE LIFE. It is just a survival- a method of it. And who survives? Poor who does not have chances or opportunities. Or the one who does not have brain to think about it. Are you any of them? No. You have all the powers- Mental, physical and financial. Go For Things.

           People always abuse me for my working culture. Even when I watch TV, people look at me as if I am doing crime. Because I always watch things that can teach me something. And even if I watch something entertaining, I observe Arts and then try to implement it when I am doing it sometimes later. I ask my mother to let me watch The News hour because its something that teaches us- debating, use of English language, thoughts related to different topics etc. I watch Bhagvat Katha and other programs on Aastha Channel. It tells the power of meditation. I watch only those parts in a Cricket match that shows a Cricketer scoring a Hundred or when Sachin Tendulkar/MS Dhoni bats. It gives me energy. When I see a Dance reality show, I try to observe new steps so that I can implement it next time I dance… ha ha ha very funny because I’m not dancing and even now I’ve tried but was not possible to dance :-) When I watch an Award function, I keep on observing the hosts and learn the timing when a joke or filler is to be inserted. I want to be everything. And thus I want to learn everything. I feel that I should know little bit of everything in life so that I always have some knowledge about any field people are talking/discussing about.

            I don't feel weird when I see that my doings are related to learning new things. Recently, I participated in a competition named "Mi Mumbaikar" in which there were different levels of Quiz Competition based on questions about Mumbai. A girl who participated in the group in which I also was a part of cleared the next level which I didn't. When I asked friends I got to know that she used to analyze the places/areas of Mumbai when she used to roam/hang-out with her fiancee. Then she used to come home and search about the whole history of the areas she visited. Impressive! And what other girls/boys do? See into eyes of each other and come back. What the .... !!! Drown into each other's eyes but remember, life is beyond this sanctity. Hahaha! Sorry hansi aa gayi. Is shreni k logon ki lene mein mujhe ek vibhinn aanand milta hai jo sirf mera hruday samajhta hai. :-)

             Basically, what I am saying is- LEARN THINGS. If you are a boy, learn everything that's possible. We have more areas to visit in comparison to girls. We have many fields in which we can try our hands in. So why not be dynamic and Jack-of-all? If you are a girl, try everything that's related to indoor activities and then also that are meant for a gutsy to execute. Right from cooking, sweeping, washing to getting official works done to driving car to traveling alone.. Learn!!! And when you learn, don't feel ashamed about what others are thinking when you are falling again and again. To learn, if you have to approach someone who is a master of that Art, go with confidence, again, don't be ashamed of this.

          Once you learn almost everything that you hear about from people around you, you feel independent. Why to be dependent on someone who is born with the same number of bones and muscles as us? Why not challenge and get ahead? Why not? No reason, right? So start learning and exploring. I have used this word- "Explore" number of times in my posts. Because I myself want to explore many things but I am confined to very few. These days I am trying to do what I used to do when I was child. Because when we are child, we fear none and hence we try every damn thing. Let's do the same now. We are just 20s or at most 30s... Right? Even when you read this medium, you learn something, right? No? Ok Sorry. I should move now before something terrorizing happens. :-)

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