A JAATE HUE LAMHON ZARA THEHRO

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       I still remember 3rd August, 2009 when I entered BRCM college in Bahal, Bhiwani for the first time. I was least expecting anything better to happen with me. That was the first day when I attended lecture for my Graduation- Bachelors of Technology. There were faces which wanted to eat me. There were faces which wanted to test me. There were faces which asked if I was a retard or something. But there were also some faces which were busy in exploring themselves if they could prove themselves in this new environment. I caught my hold on them. And then the series began........

      On 18^th october,2012, I sat for the last lecture of my graduation. It has been a very beautiful journey from 3rd August, 2009 to 18^th october,2012. To make my self happy, I don't say that I had these friends from last 3.5 years.They make fun of my logic but that makes me smile. Now, the thought of leaving all these fun is provoking me to blast and cry. I just can't imagine some of my friends going away from me. I can't imagine that the time to bunk lectures and chit-chat in canteen with a cup of tea has gone. The time to irritate the lecturers whom we hated has gone. The time to wait for our favorite lecturer to enter the class has gone. The time to make fun of each other in group has gone. The time to abuse our friends and laugh on the creativity we used to create new abuse has left us behind. It has become a phase of life when everything seems to be as I am sitting in a train and I can see everything going behind but I can't do anything as a better destiny is calling.
        60 Friends and 8 Lecturers !!! How can I forgot them in my life? From next year, whenever anyone will say that "I am in Graduation", all the faces which laughed with me, which sang with me, which danced with me, will start running in front of me. Those trips to Rishikesh, Dehradun & Mussoorie, those chit-chatting in canteen, hostel, Little World will once again flow in my mind. The numerous sittings for completing Assignments, Submissions and PROJECTS will be remembered for a long time. Standing in class as punishment, running in the corridor to reach canteen at the first after being hurled out of the class, the race of submitting answer-sheet at the very first in Unit Tests, the cutting of cakes on each others' birthday, teasing each other by their partner's or crush's name and I don't know WHAT WHAT will I remember. First, motivating a friend for making him to talk something good and once he began, demotivating and teasing him again was the best thing I will always remember. I will miss my favorite teachers a lot. And to the one I hate, and one girl whom I love very much, I will miss her every moment but I can’t forget her who is a my friend.
   So, from now, as everything which was present and in execution has turned into EVENTS OF PAST or GRADUATION TIME for me. But the faces of my beautiful friends, the affection that they had with me, the love and tears which they had shared with me, the secrets which they had shared with me, the support they has given me will remain with me in my HEART till DEATH. I pray GOD and ask him to BLESS all of them with GREAT FUTURE as all of them DESERVE to be at a GOOD PLACE in LIFE. And my dear FRIENDS, I just ask all of you to REMEMBER me whenever you THINK of the BEST BUDDIES you had in your LIFE. I don't ask you to MEET me often but I expect you to REMEMBER me by HEART and send your LOVE through PRAYING and WISHES. In the END, I will MISS ALL. That's all I can say for now. I am already in a very sad state to speak anything which can make all of you laugh.

      

"Kaash Main Ajay Devgan Jaisa Dikhta" "Aur Kaash Main Kajol Jaisi"

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Every morning, X wakes up. He goes to the mirror, sees himself, smiles and says- I am looking Good. Then, he starts brushing his teeth and he keeps seeing himself in the mirror and says to himself- I don't look much cool when I brush my teeth so from tomorrow, I will be brushing my teeth in the bathroom's wash-basin so that no one sees me in this condition. Then, he takes a bath and tries many hairstyles and finally finalizes one at the 27th attempt. Then, he rubs Men's fairness cream on his forehead and cheeks and once again sees himself and gives a Thumbs Up to him. Now, he wears shoes and just when he was about to close the door, he comes to the mirror and sees himself once again and says - Perfect. He locks the door and reaches the bus stand. He meets his friend Y and asks "Bhai, kaisa lag raha hun?" Y replies,"Nahi yaar. Your new hairstyle is covering your forehead and thus you aren't looking that chocolaty as you look everyday." X starts feeling uncomfortable and restless and he takes out his comb from his trouser's pocket and goes to a nearby Sumo, stands in front of its rear glass and starts styling his hairs again in his usual way. He comes back an asks Y again,"Ab?" And Y gives a thumbs up and now he again starts feeling like a King.

             Some of you may realize that this is how I react when someone says that I am not looking as handsome/beautiful as I normally look. People are quite obsessed with their looks and thus they feel it uncomfortable when they see that a boy/girl didn't gave them a second look. It can be easily deciphered that looks can affect the confidence of a good-looking person quite easily. When you see a teacher of your college who looks his/her's best everyday, you start giving a change to your outlook. You start behaving weirdly every morning. You become insecure about yourself. You start feeling that if I'll not look good, the female friends of mine may not spend much time with me and rather spend it with my best friend. "The girl who has crush on me may change her mind and start liking someone else because my face didn't attracted her like everyday" The thought process can start reacting to your insecurity so unpredictably that you may even turn down into depression. 

              Very few people are confident about their looks. Others feel that their look will attract people towards themselves but they forget few examples where the deeds, the work, the interaction and the free attitude of people makes them everyone's heartthrob. There are many beautiful ladies who rejects their lover with extremely wonderful physique and looks but selects someone who is dusky in complexion and short in height. The reason behind it is only one- Just observe the success of both men and you will get your answer.

           I am not trying to be offensive but I would like to name some famous personalities those who had no great looks but their work had made them Super-special for the common people-

1. Rajnikanth: This man has no feature which can drive a girl crazy but his power of acting and his unique style of work made him the biggest Superstar India ever had. Today, no actor has the capability of shaking the multiplexes and single-screen theaters except him. 

2. Sachin Tendulkar: When he debuted, he had bunch of curly hairs on a small face which made him look funny. But the magnificence of his batting power on the field has made him a God figure in the world. 

3. Shah Rukh Khan: I remember when I was in primary school, my friends used to call Shahrukh Khan a monkey because they liked Salman Khan very much (and even SRK looked like a monkey initially). SRK came into the industry when it already had handsome heroes with good bodies and face but still, he managed to grab a romantic role after his villainous work in Darr. Today, he is the only star who is compared with Superstar- Amitabh Bachchan.

4. P.T. Usha: After Sachin Tendulkar of Cricket and Vishwanathan Anand of Chess, if you will remember any big sportsperson of India who is successful worldwide- you will remember P.T. Usha for athletics. She has a typical South Indian look but her records are chart-buster.

5. Michael Jackson: One more Godly figure for his fans- Michael Jackson had the worst look. Even when his plastic surgery made him look too fair, not even a single girl would have agreed to kiss him if he would have been a common man. 

             I think these examples are enough for the people who feel that they are unattractive to feel motivated by now. Start doing good work and you will find good-looking people running behind you even if you look disgusting. A dusky skin cannot be turned into milky white but a lazy attitude can be turned into an achieving attitude. Bring that "achieving" attitude in you and then see what your personality does to others. They'll make you their inspiration and they'll follow you. They'll say that you are great even when you look worst. They'll never even realize that you look dull and ugly. They'll just notice your work and they'll go mad for even touching you or even seeing you once in their lifetime. So, looks doesn't matter in life if you have that attitude of achieving the biggest spot in your life. So, stop acting like X, stop focusing on mirror and start focusing on your attitude and make it worthy to let others get influenced by it. 

          Thanks. I hope you understood the motto of the post and please, no offense  meant to the celebrities I have mentioned above as an example. It is all in good will.

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