Getting Marriage Is Not A Noun But Is A Verb....!!

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Marriage is not a noun but is a verb. It is not something you get. It is something you do. It is the way you love your partner every day. Every girl wants such a man in her life who would care of her who would take care of her like a perfect gentleman. This line was come in my mind when I was attaining marriage with my father of my daughter of my school principal at Bhiwani .Generally I’m going only to attain some marriage party of close one only but in this session I attained a lot of marriage with my father. Even it was first time when I attained marriage of my school friend where there were present some old faces of my school friends. And it was surprise for all them that I was in that marriage functions. One friend was saying “Bhai tu kabhi shaadi mai to jaate nhi kahin galat raste se yha to nhi poonch gya ho….!! Ha ha ha too funny.

   On 6^th December, I attended a wedding ceremony of someone who is my friend. During night time marriage I was in Sismahal Banquet Hall, Hissar. There I found numerous guests- of all standards- from poor to rich to extremely rich people. Here I’m telling to all of you that what I was guessing there. Everyone came to the reception hall, without waiting for any other thing, rather than socializing, rather than sitting on the chairs present there, directly went and stood in the queue for giving their respective gifts to the newlywed couple. Just after getting their images snapped by the hired photographer, they headed towards the eating space, had their dinners and later on left the banquet hall for their home. With their family friends, they started discussing about how the couple were, how unsuitable they were, how bad the food was, how unorganized the whole system was. While listening to this entire thing, I remembered the faces of the parents of both- bride and groom. 

            Now took a look at parents of both- bride and groom. How happy they looked. How busy they were. For the whole time, they kept running here and there, attending people, taking all the details and asking for everyone's where-about etc. In any marriage function that I go, I always feel pity for the parents of the boys and girls. I feel that even after they give their 100%, they are being judged negatively by each and everyone. Hence I feel that marriage should be done without any breaking news and exclusive footage. I always feel that marriage is a part of one's life which is quite a personal issue. He/she is going to get involved with a new person, have to start a very new life, adjust with each other and create the whole world from here on wards by keeping each other in mind and their children. And yes, raising children in life is the biggest responsibility that one decides to take. It is not a bit easy.

           Someone has said it right “Beyond these stars lies another universe, you still have to clear many more tests in the course of love. So I feel that when the whole life has to be traveled with each other, and the pleasure in living together comes when the amount of money that inflows is always greater than the amount of money that outflows. Life of a person or two persons living together can only be grateful and satisfied if they are financially strong and they have the basic amount of money required to meet their necessities. Every penny comes with lots of struggle. Calling people at marriages in hundreds of number and then listening comment about what kind of a bride or a groom was and how bad the system managed by us in the wedding was, I think it’s better to marry in peace with no one around us. Just parents and very few important people whom we know aren't judgmental. Anyone except these people are just wastage of money. If both the parties in the marriage decides to save money for the marriage and utilize it for the future endeavor of the couple, I don't think anything can be a better decision than this.

              In a normal marriage, a girl's father at least spends 10-15 lakhs and a boy's father spends 5-10 lakhs. Why? Just because they don't want society to blame them. They don't want any accusations about their miser attitude in the marriage of their son/daughter. But the society will always give only negative points whenever the marriage of ours will be in the discussion. No one will ever talk good about it. Sad! But True! I believe that these 20-25 lakhs should be saved and be given to the couple as blessings by the parents or keep with them for their bad health that they would be facing in their old age. These concepts of spending and throwing money like anything for the marriage of the son/daughter is totally a void concept for me. I don't know whether my own parents will agree with me over these points and will refrain themselves from spending too large to handle but I will try my best to convey my ideologies to both the parties- my parents and my in-laws to save the money by giving me the girl's hand in a temple and getting the marriage registered at court. When Abhishek Bachchan, MS Dhoni, Aamir Khan, Hrithik Roshan, Sanjay Dutt can marry in a very low-profile manner, why can't you and I? :-) Think!!! Actually, it's about our parents to think. They need to think over this. Make them think on this.

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Parveen Kumar Sahrawat

Atit Khud Jawab Hai Us Pe Sawal Nahi Hote....!!

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Almery, books, clothes, magazines, paper cutting etc were situated on the same place like a statue from last one and half year. Just guess I was finally at my study room after so much time and was trying to search something that I can spend my time. I take my laptop from almery and start watching movies and after that listening music. And at 11 O’clock at night I come out of room to take water. After that I was trying to sleep but images of many people were travelling in my mind. But actually I don’t know what I was judging these peoples or was trying to know what’s going with me because of these peoples. Kher jo bhi hai kuch to chal rha hai….!!

Truth be told, no one has the right to judge you.  People may have heard your stories, and they may think they know you, but they can’t feel what you are going through; they aren’t living YOUR life.  So forget what they think and say about you.  Focus on how you feel about yourself, and keep walking the path that feels best under your feet. Everything seems to be nice. Sometimes nicer, sometimes perfect and sometimes can’t imagine what’s going. You and I can never know what the next minute has for us. We run in our lives. Sometimes we even drag ourselves when we find that we are not up to the mark with the targets and deadlines. We are always happier. We deal with people, deal with our parents or deal with so many people and situation concurrently that sometimes one or another does not end up being in the same way as we want them to be. And it affects us badly because of it, we end up ruining all our activities. We end up killing many relations, many contacts, many opportunities, many chances etc. Sometimes we don't even realize that we have ended up being alone or villain because of things that have happened with us. I hope all of you have related with some or the other situation of your life when you have gone through the same. Now, don't sympathize with yourself, empathize with others and think about others now. Situations are changing time to time.

Every time many things happen around us.  There are so many times when we judge others. We leave them only because for their past. We leave them because of some or many of their traits which are sin, disloyal and invalid according to our moral and values. He/her thoughts are not matching mine. We discard them because we feel that they have been up to an extent at which a human can only go when he can have no respect for others or even for himself. But there are many such situations that we have ourselves faced in our lives. These situations hit our heart or feelings. It’s just that we coped up with it or we didn't let anyone know about it. This does not mean that we are better than any of them. But here we are one of them. Just imagine if people start devaluing or ignoring you just because of some of the illegalities that you have committed in your past which you want to desperately change but unfortunately, a past remains the way it is. The only option that a human being has is to move forward and leave all that is left behind. To start a new day from this minute itself, give a wide smile and move forward to hit the another jackpot in the way. Don’t try to think deeply about these invaluable situations.

Here, if you are so smart, then so many are arising in your mind? I want to say that can one really start a new life if the person around him/her does not accept him/her with the past? This is as wrong as spitting on someone's face just because you find that they have a darker complexion in comparison to yours. If you have traveled 26 kilometer on a 100-kilometer long path that is immoral and unacceptable does not mean that you are better than someone who has traveled 72 kilometer over it. Yes you are better than him/her but your 26 kilometers are bad than someone who has traveled for just 5 or 10 kilometers. Right? Hope you are getting my point. Thrums up. So when you want to be accepted by someone who is better than you, you should also learn to accept someone who has not been better than you in past. In this life consider your age of 26 years of ours we didn't have these persons before. We have got them just now. Let's forgive them for their immoral past. Just ignore their immoral past. Just imagine that was not happened in past. Now let’s try to make them get over those days. I was being given chance once hence I am this good today that some of you say that you want to acquire some of my habits and etiquette. Otherwise there has been those parents too who asked their kids to not chit-chat or stay with me because my past has not been the way a parent want their kids' to be. It will show that there will be bed impression on their kids. So, now as you have got these people now, guide them from here rather than judging their life which wasn't perfect before your arrival. I think guidance is the better option as compared to judging to someone. But guiding is possible if he/she wants to change the situations according to environment.

Even when you’re alone, create a positive mental space for yourself.  Make it a point to give up all the thoughts that make you feel bad, or even just a few of them that have been troubling you, and see how doing that changes your life.  You don’t need negative thoughts.  They are all lies.  They solve nothing.  All they have ever given you is a false self that suffers for no reason. .But today a common problem is that suffering. If someone is going in suffering and others are going out of suffering. This world is full of sufferings and one has to overcome from the sufferings one has been in. There was one of my neighbor friends where I saw that he slapped his father and left his house. When I asked him why did he do that. I was shocked after he told me something. I didn't judge him for thrashing his father just because I consider mine as God. This was his past. Just because he shared this too sensitive thing with me does not mean that I will punish him for that. He remained a good friend until he left for Mumbai one day. Now take another example If a girl has slept with 10 ex-boyfriends in the past. It might be because she had a very depressing life at her home and she wanted some sort of activities that could have made her forget the nuisance that she underwent daily. If we would judge that girl only because we got to know about her past through some common friend of some other college, just tell me how injustice it would be with this girl who is now a very proud single and happy with life. She can't bring her virginity back. She can't say proudly that I am afresh and single since birth. But if we support her now, she can at least say after 20 years that since this point of time, my life has been as clean as any transparent thing. Isn't it?

I have always been very frank with my friends. I have assured everyone that their past won't make me feel any bad for them or it won't make me judge. I have always opened myself quite frankly on this space. Let's not reject someone for their past. I have always made others comfortable to discuss anything with me. I know that past is always a reflection of what we were but not what we are. It only adds experience in our life and we should learn something with these past moments. Yes, confessing some of our activities in public seem to be shameful but you should do it yourself before someone else does it for you who know this particular secret of yours. Be always proud of what your past has been even if it has been something that you have almost forgot because it was too bad to even remember once in five years. So friends, the only request is to not reject or bash or ignore people for their past. Please accept them. Let them feel good about their lives. Let them feel that they have not committed a crime but just a silly mistake. But also make them realize that the mistakes repeated yet again in future will cost them badly as life is in a mature phase now. But change the lives of these people. Yours will automatically change in a very huge manner. But devote yourself in bringing these people back to life. That's all…. Ya ab kuch or reh gya…. So bye bye….!!

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Parveen Kumar Sahrawat

Mera Kya or Muje Kya:- Hume Apni Zimmedari Puri Siddat Ke Sath Nibhaana Chayea Lekin Jataana Nhi….!!

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My Responsibility for Playing A Character On stage With My Team

Tomorrow is teacher’s day.  After parents teachers give us knowledge and teaching us about responsibility. The biggest deed that you can do in life is taking responsibility of anything. We should learn from elder and experienced one about it. Here I’m sharing some moments about responsibility of my life. On Independence Day PM of India Mr. Narendra Modi was saying in his speech that: “Mera Kya or Muje Kya”, He was 100% right. If in our life we’ve “Mera Kya or Muje Kya” then we can’t learn how to take responsibility. This line is also something related to responsibility as well as other things also like as corruption etc. Let’s start from school life. In anyone’s life no platform can’t be better than school where we start learning and taking responsibility. On teacher’s day I also get a chance to become math teacher in school.

 I remember when I was in school, I was better in study so whenever any teacher used to ask me to keep a stick for giving punishment to week student that they would need while conducting a lecture, I used to be the first person to say that I am not capable of it. Teacher smile at me and give the job to someone else. Later on, when I came in 11^th class principal called me to his office and give a cup of tea and biscuit and say form today you’re monitor of your class and take the responsibility. I was capable for responsibility and say yes. But later in 12^th class I refused for to become monitor of my class because of the mistake of my class teacher. But getting all information about incident principal was in favor of me but refused again and no other was ready to be monitor of class even I don’t know why principal was not ready to give this responsibility to other students of my class.

Later when I came in Graduation after getting matured, teachers again tried to give me some or the other responsibility but I kept myself away from it saying that I’m on leave and hence I am not able to match up to the standards that you have set in your mind. During first year of my graduation class, my math teacher Mrs. Sunita Karwasra asks me to keep chalk and duster, for this responsibility I say yes.  But now, when my teachers ask me to take a responsibility or two, I agree. I agree because now I realize that it’s just a shameful procrastination which leads a personality towards disgracing itself. 

 

A Quote on Responsibility For Your Life

Taking responsibility of anything is as difficult as saying it in thousands people that you have a dream which is as high as becoming a Prime Minister and you will achieve it by the next election even though you know that you are nowhere close to it. I remember when I going regularly to vocational rehabilitation centre, save cow and some other social function only because of my mama ji and parents. When we see the world of these peoples all of us in the family got emotional at that moment and wanted to shower more love among each other than before. My parent said to me that I should study sincerely so that I can take responsibility of my family also for society who doesn’t have a shadow anymore. As soon as I heard this, I found myself under such a big weight that it took me just few seconds to tell my mother that If I'll be capable of doing this then I’ll do and till they shouldn't expect anything from me. After that I started feeling as if a big pressure cooker has been installed in my brain which will explode at any moment.

Simply everyone’s life is different from other. Everybody is able to take any responsibility according to situation. Taking our own responsibility is so tough that taking someone else's responsibility is the toughest job in the world. If someone wants to get their ticket reserved on IRCTC and they ask you to do the favor as they are busy somewhere else. If you say YES to it and later on, you fail in booking a ticket for them or even forget booking the tickets, you will stay in guilt for all your life whenever you'll remember that specific person or hear their name. If you say to your friend that I would be present every time you would be needing me even if you'll be wrong, I would come without thinking anything just to help you and a day comes when you receive a call and you are unable to leave your house at 3:00 AM because of your parental rule, you will never be able to look into the eyes of your friend again. Hence think hundred times before you promise anything to anyone.

            Now a day, in young generation people, they are always ready to promise to their lover but not ready to promise for social work. If they promise, don’t know when they can break their promise. There are many friends who tell me that they promised their lover "Kuch bhi ho yaar mai shaadi to tujhse hi karunga", the first thing I tell them is,"Go and say it to your partner the next day itself that you take back that big responsibility of marrying her without knowing the consequences and situations at that very time". My friends do hate me for such bluntness and insisting attitude but only I know what trauma they will go through when they'll find that the situation isn't in their control at the last moment and they will end up participating in a crime to prove how strong they are. Why to take such responsibilities that we are unsure about?

We should escape from those responsibilities which we can’t do. We should promise only for that work which we can do. “Karlo Dunia Muthi Mai” it is possible when you will work hard and every time you’ll ready to take any type of responsibility in any situation.  If I say that I am going to write 365 posts this year means a post a day then it becomes a very big responsibility as a Blogger to prove it. Hence, I never make such statements. But here I can make a plan that I’ll try to write some good useful post every time then it is also a big responsibility for me. Not in the case of Blogging only but even in small things in life. If my father says that I want you to send a certain mail to certain company on a specific day, I write it everywhere so that I don't forget it. If I take responsibility then I actually use all my notebooks, mobile, laptop, email ID etc as a reminder tool. 

I would always respect a person who is taking responsibility of many things around him and fulfilling all of them. Even when you celebrate Raksha Bandhan, you take a big responsibility of protecting your sister. And every brother knows how big and tough that responsibility is. Boys always have a part of his mind thinking about where his sister would be and with whom she would be. Even when couple decides to go for a baby, they take a very big responsibility to nourish a small child into a good and successful human being. Here I’m giving a mantra: "Hume Apni Zimmedari Puri Siddat Ke Sath Nibhaana Chayea Lekin Jataana Nhi". And the biggest thing that you should crave for learning every minute is- "I will take each and every responsibility that is been given to me by my friends, elders, boss, employee, teacher, neighbor, relative etc". The day you will achieve this attitude, believe me, you would have won the world around you. And finally I’ll say respect all teachers….!! :-)

Thanks

Parveen Kumar Sahrawat

Happy Birthday Wishes Dear Friend....!!

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Wish You A  Very Happy Birthday....Stay Blessed....!! :)

Dear friend

          After two today I was in Hissar and meet some old friends. I was coming home for some day so get time to go there and also visited to Jindal Hospital first time.  After reaching I was sitting alone and suddenly come to know about birthday.

Wish you a very happy birthday. I hope you are fine. Here I can’t understand how I should start my blog. Please don’t take me wrong. I was really surprised after watching your health It is so weak. Nearly a year later to meet you I was happy but from inside I was very sad after to come know your broken engagement. I found out about it from friends at that time when some friends were calling me, at that time muje is baat par viswas nhi hua. I’ve tried to contact you many times but every time I found your phone switch off.  It is like water getting split on someone’s happiness.

          On the day of Convocation in college I was repeating the same thing over and over again “ kya hua kya hua… jooth to nhi bol rhe …. Wo isi lia pooch rha tha main.  But aacha lga ki kisi ko feel nhi hone dia. Wha itne aache mahole mai  ye bat kr ke past ki baaten yaad nhi dilana chahta tha so maien is bare main koi baat nhi ki . I’m sorry yar purani baaten karke aapko udas nhi karna chahta tha.  

          There is a turning point in every person’s life that changes.  Jo bhot kuch sikha jata hai. You will always find shade after sunshine so if bad time comes, it will pass away. Never lose courage. I wish all your dreams may come true. But a dream is not good enough if seen alone. I wish someone may come in your life Who may make your life more beautiful than a dream. Is it already written in our destiny as to who will become our life partner? And we don’t even have a hint about that person.  There are good people too in this world. It’s true that two people meet and get married and spend their lives together. But this is just a tradition that the world follows. Muje to yhi lgta hai ki God sare dil ke rishte phle hi jor deta hai or milna hum logo par chor deta hai. How amazing yaar. It’s not about having the perfect relationship, it’s about finding someone who matches you and will go through everything without giving up. It is said that a person’s essence lies in his body scent which touches the heart. Even today true love rules this world.

A Pencil Sketch Of Parveen Kumar Sahrawat's Moment

          If in life we have courage, patience, trust and feelings to hum koi dukh seh sakte hai. And all these points are in you. In bad time I’m standing with you. Actually we know kisi ne shi khan hai ki sorrow gets divided by sharing and joys double. You are different from all others. Sometimes you like a person’s small gesture and fall in love with her. I was touched by your kindness to such an extent that I prayed for you well being instead of mine.  Even there was a day when I go temple to pray for you. For few days I was also become some more deeply sad and tensed about the nonsense going around my life. Even due to it my health goes down so much  , but friend’s health was also a point of tension that how this incident much affect their health deeply ….  I know very well chinta chita ke saman hoti hai even then was not possible to control on my decreasing diet. I hope good day will come for you…. Dekhte hai dua ka kitna asar hota hai….!!

Bs Khuda se yeh Guzaarish hai,

ke har khushi tumhein mubarak ho,

or yeh har farishtey ki dua ho....!!

           Life is an everyday battle in itself. It is easy to run away but very difficult to face life. If something is troubling you, then throw it out of your life and start your life afresh. You have most beautiful eyes in the world. We spend some good day which become some beautiful moments of life may be related to chit chat or trip travelling etc. These few moments that we spent with each other are enough for me. Because neither you nor I can forget these moments.  Even some moments were like that I’ve lived my entire life in a single moment. Sometimes a particular moment leaves a deep impact on your soul, which doesn’t leave you even after your death. But this will surely leave some effect on your heart too….forever.

          Now we’ve no conversations and I was also to come know about all other friends that they also have some less conversations. This is too shocking. We should live in contact. I always saying a person hold more value than time. I respect a human being. I’ve tried to break this wall many times. Today again I had come to give it a try. I’ll keep on trying until this wall breaks. We were not like this before. I’ll wait for that day.

Phool khilte rahein zindgi ki raah mein,
Hassi chamakti rahe aapki nigaah mein,
Kadam kadam par mile khushi ki bahar aapko,
Dil deta hai yehi dua baar-baar aapko.

          Today is your birthday so wish you a very happy birthday dear…. Stay blessed. God, I heard that prayers are showered from the sky and not memories from the past. Please give so much happiness to you that you’re always happy. In a few moments, we’ll return back to our respective lives. Now smile once for me. Finally it is your wish. Move on in life. It’ll be a pleasure to me.

Thanks

Parveen Kumar Sahrawat

Happy Janmashtami.... Jai Shri Krishna....!!

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Janmasthami is the birthday of Lord Krishna, the re-incarnation of Lord Vishnu, who gave us the vital message of the Bhagwat Geeta. The festival of Janmashtami is now popularly celebrated outside of due largely to the extraordinary efforts of many Krishna-devotees and many Hindu organizations. Reach out to all your fellow Indians on this auspicious occasion and wish them Happy Janmashtami ….!!

According to the Hindu religion Lord Krishna was born in the Dwapar Yuga which came just before the Kaluga. The Jhankis (tableaux) depicting many significant scenes from Lord Krishna’s life are the intrinsic part of Janmasthami. Devotees also make beautiful Jhulans (Cradles) for the Krishna. In some parts of India, young men break the Matka (Earthen Pots) filled with butter and curds. The most important tableaux is that of baby Krishna. An idol of baby Krishna is placed on a cradle, which is rocked to recreate scenes from Krishna’s infancy. The devotees believe that anyone who makes a wish and while rocking the cradle in which the Lord is, his or her wish will be granted on this day.

In Vrandvan, every year the Rasleelas or the folk theatre acting out stories from Lord Krishna’s life. This begins much before the Janmasthami day. These Rasleelas are staged by professional drama troupes or even young children. These dramas characterized by colorful and equally colorful backgrounds. Rasleelas are usually accompanied by musicians and are very popular among the people. The language spoken by the actors and the actresses is the Brajbhasha, but sometimes, Hindi is also used.

The essence of Sri Krishna Avatar is beautifully explained in this Sloka from Bhagavad Geeta:-

“Yada Yada Hi Dharmasya, Glanirva Bhavathi Bharatha,
 Abhyuthanam Adharmaysya,Tadatmanam Srijami Aham’.
Praritranaya Sadhunam Vinashaya Cha Dushkritam,
Dharamasansthapnaya,Sambhavami Yuge-Yuge.”

Lord Krishna to Arjuna
(Shrimat Bhagavad Geeta)

Meaning of above Sloka is :- Whenever and wherever there is a decline in religious practice, O descendant of Bharatha, and a predominant rise of irreligion-at that time I descend myself. To deliver the pious and to annihilate the miscreants, as well as to reestablish the principles of religion, I, Myself, appear, ages after ages( I’m born in every age).

In the Bhagvat Geeta, this is what the Lord Himself promised. The Lord never failed to keep his promises down the ages. He incarnated down to the earth from his heavenly abode at the Vaikuntha, to save his devotees. In different forms, Lord Vishnu, the sustainer and the Supreme Soul, came down to the earth, one after another, just like "the waves in an ocean". But, His Avatar (incarnation) Lord Krishna is said to be God Himself incarnated. It was the eighth day of the new-moon fortnight (Krishnapaksha) of the month of Shravanaa.

Mathura, the birthplace of Lord Krishna, where his parents lived in captivity of the evil Kansa and he as a young boy came and vanquished his maternal uncle Kansa  to ascend the throne and free his parents, celebrates Janmashtami with great  enthusiasm. The main celebrations are performed at the Dwarakadhish temple, Mathura in the form of Jhulanotsava and the Ghatas during the entire month of Shravana.

Indian mythical heritage overflows with a pantheon of Gods and Goddesses. The celestial powers figure in the beliefs of the people and the divine influence plays an important part in their lives. Yet, among these deities, the most beloved is Lord Krishna, the eighth avatar (incarnation) of Vishnu. Janmasthami is a celebration of the birth of Lord Krishna and every ritual in the celebration of this auspicious occasion is associated with various phases of his life, which have been immortalized in both the religious and the folk literature.

I’ve a movie on Shree Krishna in which the story of birth of Shree Krishna is given. Story is something like as given below:-

Kansa, the King of Mathura (North India) was extremely ruthless and an evil force. His subjects were inexplicably terrified of him. When Kansa’s sister Devki was married off to Vasudeva, an aakashvani or voice from the sky was heard prophesying that Devaki’s 8th son would be the destroyer of Kansa.

Kansa immediately drew his sword to kill Devki but Vasudeva intervened and pleaded Kansa to spare his bride. Vasudeva assured that he would hand over every new born of his to Kansa. Kansa ordered both Devki and Vasudeva to be imprisoned immediately.

When Devki gave birth to her first child, Kansa came to the prison cell and slaughtered the newborn. This continued till he killed the first six sons of Devki. Meanwhile, people of Mathura were fervently praying to the Gods to spare them from Kansa’s tyranny.

Even before her 8th child was born, Devki and Vasudeva started lamenting its fate and theirs. Lord Vishnu appeared before them and said He would come soon and rescue the couple and all of Mathura. He instructed Vasudeva to carry him to the cowherd chief Nanda in Gokul right after his birth. Here, Nanda’s wife Yashoda had given birth to a daughter who was to be exchanged with baby Krishna.

Vishnu assured them that “nothing shall bar your path”. At midnight on 8th day of lunar month Shaven i.e. on Ashtami, the divine baby was born in Kansa’s prison. Remembering the instructions of Lord Vishnu, Vasudeva held the child tightly to his bosom and started for Gokul, but found that his legs were in chains. He jerked his legs and was unfettered. The massive iron-barred doors unlocked and opened up, miraculously.

Vasudeva While Crossing Yamuna River.

While crossing river Yamuna, Vasudeva held his baby high over his head. The rain fell in torrents and the river was in spate. But the water made way for Vasudeva and surprisingly a five-mouthed snake (Anant Shesh Nag) followed him from behind and provided shelter over the baby.

When Vasudeva reached Gokul, he found the door of Nanda’s house open. He exchanged the babies and hurried back to the prison of Kansa with the baby girl. Early in the morning, all the people at Gokul rejoiced the birth of Nanda’s beautiful male child. Vasudeva came back to Mathura and as he entered, the doors of the prison closed themselves.

When Kansa came to know about the birth, he rushed inside the prison and tried to kill the baby. But this time it skipped from his hand and reached the skies. The child transformed into the Goddess Yogamaya, who told Kansa:- “O foolish…! What will you get by killing me? Your nemesis is already born somewhere else. Your end is inevitable.” Saying so, she vanished.

In his youth Krishna killed Kansa along with all his cruel associates, liberated His parents from prison, and reinstated Ugrasen as the King of Mathura.

Jai Shri Krishna

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Parveen Kumar Sahrawat

Happy Independence Day....!!

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Parveen Kumar Sahrawat on Independence Day in New Delhi

India became an independent nation 68 years ago on 15 August 1947. The Capital City of India, Delhi, is ready for celebrating Independence Day on 15th August, 2014. All preparations are almost done and appropriate authorities ensure best security measures in sensitive areas of Delhi and the places where actual celebrations take place. Its evening of 14 August and I’m excited to listen the speech of PM Narendra Modi. I’m sure that all Indian all over the world also excited for his speech.

  

The Independence Day of India which is celebrated on 15 August is a national holiday signifies the date of India's independence from the British rule and its birth as a sovereign nation on 15 August 1947.  The independence coincided with the partition of India wherein the British Indian Empire was divided along religious lines into two new nations—Dominion of India (later Republic of India) and Dominion of Pakistan (later Islamic Republic of Pakistan)....!!

The Independence Day of India is a national holiday in country. The flagship event takes place in Delhi where the Prime Minister of India hosts the national flag at the Red Fort, followed by a nationally broadcast speech from its ramparts. The day is observed all over India with flag-hosting ceremonies, parades and cultural events. Citizens rejoice the day by displaying the national flag on their attire, household accessories, vehicles, varied activities such as kite flying, bonding with family and friends, and enjoying patriotic songs and films are seen.

“Pran lete hai Azaadi ki shaam nhi hone Denge,

Veeron ki Smadhiyon ko Badnam nhi hone Denge…

Jab tak Tan mai Garam Lahoo ki ek Boond bhi baaki hai,

Bharat Mata ka Aanchal Neelaam nhi hone Denge”….!!

Many citizens of India from various parts of Country come to witness this grand ceremony at Red Fort. A grand parade is held at Red Fort by different troops of Indian Army. During Independence Day of India, Indian Flags can be seen all around. It's not about Red Fort or some selected parts of the country but every red-light, showroom, restaurant etc can be found decorated with Indian Flags. During this activity, most of the folks make sure that Indian Flag is not disrespected by any means, although many times these flags are also seen on roads after the ceremonial day, which is one of the sad parts.

On 15 August, the Prime Minister Narendra Modi of India hoists the Indian flag on the ramparts of the historical site Red Fort in Delhi. Twenty-one gun shots are fired in honor of the solemn occasion. In his speech, the Prime Minister highlights the achievements of his government during the past year, raises important issues and gives a call for further development. He pays tribute to the leaders of the freedom struggle. The Indian national anthem “Jana Gana Mana” is sung. The speech is followed by March Past by divisions of the Indian Army and paramilitary forces, and parades and pageants showcasing events from the struggle for independence as well as cultural traditions of the country. Similar events take place in state capitals where the Chief Ministers of individual states unfurl the national flag, and parades and pageants follow.

 

Parveen Kumar Sahrawat at Red Fort, Delhi

The Independence Day is one of the three national holidays in India with the other two being the Republic Day on 26 January and Mahatma Gandhi's birthday on 2 October and is observed in all Indian states and union territories. On the evening of the Independence Day, the President of India delivers the “Address to the Nation”, The Prime Minister hoists the National Flag at Red Fort in in the National capital of Delhi followed by his speech which is nationally broadcast on Radio and TV.This is followed by the singing of the National Anthem.. This year Pranav Mukharjee will be addressing Indians third time as President. 

Security measures in the country are intensified before the Independence Day celebration, especially in major cities such as Delhi, Mumbai, Kolkata, Chennai and Bangalore and in troubled states such as Jammu and Kashmir, Bihar, UP and Maharashtra. The celebratory events are anticipated to be the target of terrorist attacks. The aerial space around the Red Fort is declared a no-fly zone during the celebration to prevent aerial attacks, and additional police forces are deployed in other cities.

Security is one of the main focus areas for appropriate authorities of India, to ensure that folks coming to Delhi for this event are safe and at the same time, all main locations in capital city are under proper surveillance. 

Bharat Mata Ki Jai....Jai Hind....!!

Parveen Kumar Sahrawat

Happy Rakshabandhan To All- Sad Day For Me....!!

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This year I write a few blog posts. I took a long time to write a blog as I was busy these days so today I’m back again on the special occasion of celebrating brother- sister protective relationship i.e. Rakshabandhan. It is an important Hindu festival celebrated across India and by some people of Indian origin around the world. On Rakshabandhan, the sister's tie Rakhi on her brother's wrist. Raksha Bandhan symbolizes the tie or knot of protection. The scriptures epics and ancient fiction is peppered with the stories of Rakhi. An incident in their lives finds a mention amongst the various stories of the Mahabharata, Mugal Kal etc.

          I’ve no real sister but I’ve some cousin sisters. But all are not meet regularly at the occasion of Rakshabandhan. I like this occasion so much but no one available to celebrate. I become really happy when I see the love between brother-sister. Finally I’m at home. I like cooking a lot at home so today make some Brad Pakoda and Aloo chat. Even whether is cool because of raining at here. Lets enjoy or kisi ko khana hai to aajao chai pe….!!

Now I’m telling a short story about Rakshabandhan. According to one version on a Sankranti day, Krishna managed to cut his little finger while handling sugarcane. Rukmini, his queen immediately sent her help to get a bandage cloth while Sathyabama, his other consort rushed to bring some cloth herself. Draupadi who was watching all of this rather simply tore off a part of her sari and bandaged his finger. In return for this deed, Krishna promised to protect her in time of distress. The word he is said to have uttered is 'Akshyam' which was a boon:- 'May it be unending'. And that was how Draupadi's sari became endless and saved her embarrassment on the day she was disrobed in full public view in king Dritarashtra's court.

Today in morning I was watching news with my father then I also come to know about a story of Punjab rular Paras and Sikandar’s fight. In this fight sister of Paras who was a ruler of Punjab, also send rakhi to save her and other women from Sikandar. And at last Paras was successful to save all them and Sikandar lost the fight. So, friends we stood the meaning of Rakhi - a thread of love, protection and respect. I’m ending with few lines for all brothers who take vow to protect his sisters and all sisters who love and sometimes also fight with their brothers for teasing them....

We do a lot of fun

We share a lot of secrets

We promise to not reveal them

We prank each other to show our smartness

We fight for the study table

We fix the time of taking remote

But at the time of difficulty

In solving questions you always

Take my pen and solve all queries

But still the chocolate is not yours

We watch the match together, 
you always support the One I don't like, 

so yes we have free opinions

The whole point is that a sister - brother relationship

Never gets weak, it always cherishes memories

And take a high peak, let’s vow for each others

Well-being and face the world with a

Powerful knot of love tying on your wrist.

Through you irritate each other immensely you’ll find your sister the sweetest person on earth and your brother your strongest supporter. Now finally Rakshabandhan ki Hardik Subhkamnaye. Hereis my wish for all of you Sisters and Brothers…. Enjoy each other…Fight, have fun, give each other a kick but give a hug as well.

Thanks

Parveen Kumar Sahrawat

Cool Sher O Shayari....!!

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Sabhi ko sabhi kuch haasil nahi milta,

Nadi ki har lehar ko saahil nahin milta,

Aray yeh dil walon ki duniya hai ajab hai daastan,

kisi se dil nhi milta aur koi dil se nhi milta....!!

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Arz kia hai….

Duao mai dum ho to dunia ko hila do

Nhi to do ghut pio or dunia ko hilte hue dekho….!!

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Kya khoob pasand thi meri is Raah-E-Safar mai….

Maine Phool hi wo chunaa tha jo sare Gulsan ko Aziz tha….!!

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Didar ki talab ho to Nazare jamaye rakhna….

Kyunki Nakab ho ya Nasib srakta jarur hai….!!

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Himmat nhi muj mai ki tuje dunia se cheen lu….

Lekin mere Dil se tuje koi nikale

 itna haq to maine Khuda ko bhi nhi dia….!!

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Lakho log Pyar krte hai Duniya mai

Shayad Hum un jese nhi….

Dikhane ke liye hum bhi Tajmahal bna sakte hai

Magr Mumtaj ko mrne de wo ShahJahan hum nhi....!!

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Thanks
Parveen Kumar Sahrawat