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| My Responsibility for Playing A Character On stage With My Team |
Tomorrow is teacher’s
day. After parents teachers give us
knowledge and teaching us about responsibility. The biggest deed that you can
do in life is taking responsibility of anything. We should learn from elder and
experienced one about it. Here I’m sharing some moments about responsibility of
my life. On Independence Day PM of India Mr. Narendra Modi was saying in his
speech that: “Mera Kya or Muje Kya”, He was 100% right. If in our life we’ve
“Mera Kya or Muje Kya” then we can’t learn how to take responsibility. This
line is also something related to responsibility as well as other things also
like as corruption etc. Let’s start from school life. In anyone’s life no
platform can’t be better than school where we start learning and taking responsibility.
On teacher’s day I also get a chance to become math teacher in school.
I remember when I was in school, I was better
in study so whenever any teacher used to ask me to keep a stick for giving
punishment to week student that they would need while conducting a lecture, I
used to be the first person to say that I am not capable of it. Teacher smile
at me and give the job to someone else. Later on, when I came in 11th
class principal called me to his office and give a cup of tea and biscuit and say
form today you’re monitor of your class and take the responsibility. I was capable
for responsibility and say yes. But later in 12th class I refused
for to become monitor of my class because of the mistake of my class teacher.
But getting all information about incident principal was in favor of me but
refused again and no other was ready to be monitor of class even I don’t know
why principal was not ready to give this responsibility to other students of my
class.
Later when I came in Graduation
after getting matured, teachers again tried to give me some or the other
responsibility but I kept myself away from it saying that I’m on leave and
hence I am not able to match up to the standards that you have set in your
mind. During first year of my graduation class, my math teacher Mrs. Sunita
Karwasra asks me to keep chalk and duster, for this responsibility I say yes. But now, when my teachers ask me to take a
responsibility or two, I agree. I agree because now I realize that it’s just a
shameful procrastination which leads a personality towards disgracing itself.
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| A Quote on Responsibility For Your Life |
Taking responsibility
of anything is as difficult as saying it in thousands people that you have a
dream which is as high as becoming a Prime Minister and you will achieve it by
the next election even though you know that you are nowhere close to it. I
remember when I going regularly to vocational rehabilitation centre, save cow
and some other social function only because of my mama ji and parents. When we
see the world of these peoples all of us in the family got emotional at that moment
and wanted to shower more love among each other than before. My parent said to
me that I should study sincerely so that I can take responsibility of my family
also for society who doesn’t have a shadow anymore. As soon as I heard this, I
found myself under such a big weight that it took me just few seconds to tell
my mother that If I'll be capable of doing this then I’ll do and till they
shouldn't expect anything from me. After that I started feeling as if a big
pressure cooker has been installed in my brain which will explode at any
moment.
Simply everyone’s
life is different from other. Everybody is able to take any responsibility
according to situation. Taking our own responsibility is so tough that taking
someone else's responsibility is the toughest job in the world. If someone
wants to get their ticket reserved on IRCTC and they ask you to do the favor as
they are busy somewhere else. If you say YES to it and later on, you fail in
booking a ticket for them or even forget booking the tickets, you will stay in
guilt for all your life whenever you'll remember that specific person or hear
their name. If you say to your friend that I would be present every time you
would be needing me even if you'll be wrong, I would come without thinking anything
just to help you and a day comes when you receive a call and you are unable to
leave your house at 3:00 AM because of your parental rule, you will never be
able to look into the eyes of your friend again. Hence think hundred times
before you promise anything to anyone.
Now a day, in young generation people, they are always ready to promise to their lover but not ready to promise for social work. If they promise, don’t know when they can break their promise. There are many friends who tell me that they promised their lover "Kuch bhi ho yaar mai shaadi to tujhse hi karunga", the first thing I tell them is,"Go and say it to your partner the next day itself that you take back that big responsibility of marrying her without knowing the consequences and situations at that very time". My friends do hate me for such bluntness and insisting attitude but only I know what trauma they will go through when they'll find that the situation isn't in their control at the last moment and they will end up participating in a crime to prove how strong they are. Why to take such responsibilities that we are unsure about?
We should escape from
those responsibilities which we can’t do. We should promise only for that work which
we can do. “Karlo Dunia Muthi Mai” it is possible when you will work hard and
every time you’ll ready to take any type of responsibility in any
situation. If I say that I am going to
write 365 posts this year means a post a day then it becomes a very big
responsibility as a Blogger to prove it. Hence, I never make such statements.
But here I can make a plan that I’ll try to write some good useful post every
time then it is also a big responsibility for me. Not in the case of Blogging
only but even in small things in life. If my father says that I want you to
send a certain mail to certain company on a specific day, I write it everywhere
so that I don't forget it. If I take responsibility then I actually use all my
notebooks, mobile, laptop, email ID etc as a reminder tool.
I would always
respect a person who is taking responsibility of many things around him and
fulfilling all of them. Even when you celebrate Raksha Bandhan, you take a big
responsibility of protecting your sister. And every brother knows how big and
tough that responsibility is. Boys always have a part of his mind thinking
about where his sister would be and with whom she would be. Even when couple
decides to go for a baby, they take a very big responsibility to nourish a
small child into a good and successful human being. Here I’m giving a mantra: "Hume
Apni Zimmedari Puri Siddat Ke Sath Nibhaana Chayea Lekin Jataana Nhi". And
the biggest thing that you should crave for learning every minute is- "I
will take each and every responsibility that is been given to me by my friends,
elders, boss, employee, teacher, neighbor, relative etc". The day you will
achieve this attitude, believe me, you would have won the world around you. And
finally I’ll say respect all teachers….!! :-)
Thanks
Parveen Kumar Sahrawat
