A Cat and Dog Life....!!

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Currently, I am sort of depressed. I don't know how and when this bloody creature did touch me but it managed to touch. I don't love being depressed and being low but the situations in my life has propelled me to be one of the victims. I still create jokes with friends and I smile just as usual, but it doesn't come from heart, it comes from my fake self who shows others that I am the most happiest of all. I try to control my emotions but in the end, I am a human being and expression is my tool.

       Smiling face does not denote that the person is a happy soul. A person smiles because of any of the following reasons: - when he is really very happy or he is trying to hide his sadness. Whenever I smile, I smile because I am happy from within but when I am not then I still manage to give a fake smile. I try to make it sure that when I am around, people should feel motivated and spirited. If I manage to do so then I feel very good about myself but I feel like blowing my head off if I see that people are sad because I am sad. People love to be around the person who keeps laughing and making others laugh. People ignore the person who is a depressing soul and a person who keeps complaining about everything in life.

Title of this blog post is “A Cat and Dog Life”. I hope no know one is understand except the smart one. A cat and dog life is a life full of quarrels and conflicts. Rest you’ll understand after reading post. Now a day a specific type of environment is going like as “To put or set the cat among pigeons” is to cause trouble especially by doing or saying something that is unexpected or cause confusion. It’s a colloquial expression. Every other person does job. Every other person wants to change his job. Every other person has an evil boss. Most of them are unsatisfied with his increments, bonuses and promotions. So, if you are facing the same problem and you are showing off that you are the most tortured person on the Earth, it’s just over-acting and nothing else. In case of college every under-graduate student is struggling with assignments, presentations and projects. Where every student is being tortured by his teachers and are frustrated because of exams and dipping percentage. So, if you are facing the similar problem then you need not prove the world that you are a hard-working soul. Here we should try to show people that in spite of working in such an atmosphere that we live so cheerfully without any tension and pressure. That will make you an inspiration and instance for others. People will love to know from you that how you manage your personal and professional life paralleled. But if you are crying about the job you have to perform just like any other person then you will be ignored and kicked.

Ek khavat suno “If you are like a cat on hot bricks”, means you are actually very nervous or worried. Personally I try to spread as much love and happiness as possible. I want people to be happy. I want people to convert their unhappiness and sorrow into cheer and zeal. So a face should be smiling even if you are dealing with one of the major problem of your life. When I see that a person is sad or low, I try to give him some beautiful examples of some great people who resolved their problem in a distinct way and started living a happier life than before. But sometimes I face some situations when I'm enforced to show that loser expression on my face. I am not a great actor or personality like Amitabh Bachchan or Ajay Devgn who can conduct love through his face even when hatred against someone is creeping in my heart at the same time. So, it becomes tougher for me to react in such a situation.

Even butter would not melt in her mouth. :-) means everyone have the look of an honest, moral, well-behaved person. When you are in pain, you expect your friends to understand you. Your expression says it all but here none of my friend understood that there is something wrong with me. This pained me more. A human being always needs a person who can give his shoulder to him when he wants to cry but I have no one in life. I can't call anyone to tell my problem and get a beautiful solution. But, whom can I share all this with? Neither do I have any close cousin with whom I can share all this. I don't have a friend who can understand me even when I hide my pain or doubt. I don't have anyone. I am in depression and I am trying to come out of it. If reader expects that I’ll share my pain I can’t do that. I not want to explode everything in front of my Blog Readers. I can give a little relief to myself by doing other works.

During writing this blog actually what I was doing chatting with Mr. Dinesh Kaushik on whatsapp and working on my blog. It was nice to talk Mr. Dinesh Kaushik and Mr. Ankur Shekhawat on whatsapp and Mr. Pardeep Verma on phone. Every time talk to Mr. Govind Sharma is funny. What we’re doing generally passing jokes and comments along with shahyari on general issues. After 3 years we’re in contact on Facebook. After two and half month I used my phone and contacted to any classmate from my college life. Mr. Rahul Gupta is the only one who contact every month. And was suddenly surprise to get a call from Mr. Jitender Gaur. He call me only to tell that “Us Kea Ache Din Jane Wale Hay” because he is engaged now. Once again Congratulations dear. Every time when I was calling to him phone was picked by his mother.  And the idiot never gives a call back. Hope so in future all these will live in contact.

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Love Is A Wonderful Thing....!!

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Again a post on love I’ve posted now but without your response I don’t know actually what’s going because I get less response about written post. Now again a lecture on Love with poem lines. Based on love blog post some friends giving me Upadhi of love guru and asking me tips. I’m sorry, I can’t give any tips because I’ve not played any Romantic or Aashique type role in real life like as Ajay Devgn, Amitabh Bachchan or Shah Rukh Khan ….!! :-) To ab suru karte hai aage ki love katha and I’m sure you’ll like it.

  Love is a powerful thing. Love can turn a person’s life into a journey full of excitement. While there is no such thing as a perfect marriage. Unfortunately, our society has distorted the true principles of beauty. Beauty is not about a person’s physique but beauty is about a person’s personality. When we are attracted by a person’s inner beauty, their out beauty simply becomes an addition to the person that we find ourselves inwardly attracted to.

          True love causes us to pay close attention to those that we are attracted to. We take note of their physical makeup, but, more importantly, we pay careful attention to their personal needs. Not only should we notice these needs, but we should, to the best of our ability, consistently be seeking to meet those very needs. 

          We are to become so in love with that one person that God has created specifically for us that all of our desires are centered on them and on them alone. True love is a lasting commitment to love without condition and to love without ending. It is a strong love in both the good times and the bad.  It is by God’s design that two people are brought together, to be together. It is no longer one person living alone, it is now two individuals living together and seeking to fulfill God’s perfect will together.  Some beautiful lines are given below:-

Love is a wonderful thing

Whom it happens to, it just happen

The crazy heart gets lost

When the crazy heart gets lost then god help us

Friends, this life’s stories are weird

See how in this way we both have meet

Looking into the sky at night

I look at this one star

It reminds me of how close yet far apart we are

My heart says to you

Now we should be friends

The crazy heart gets lost

When the crazy heart gets lost, then god helps us

Love is a wonderful thing,

Whom it happens to, it just happen

Turn your world into one sweet dream

Take your heart and make it sing

A rhythm of love is there in every heartbeat

Playing the heart’s rhythm I am lost in love

It will be great fun when

It will be great fun when the ambience is romantic

Love is a wonderful thing,

Whom it happens to, it just happen

The crazy heart gets lost

When the crazy heart gets lost, then god help

Love is a wonderful thing,

Whom it happens to, it just happen

           I read a beautiful quote written on a wall as written below:-

“Surely Love is a wonderful thing. It is more precious than emeralds, and dearer than fine opals. Pearls and pomegranates cannot buy it, nor is it set forth in the marketplace. It may not be purchased of the merchants, for can it be weighed out in the balance for gold.”

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Accept Rejection and Reject Acceptance....!!

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With B.Lakshmi Narayana from Andhra Pradesh

Last week I come back after completed training at Jinjholi. There I was happy to meet so many friends of RSS-social work, come from all over India MP, UP, CG, Rajasthan, Haryana, AP etc. It was first time that at a time we’re together and were excited to know about their culture, language, environment etc. It was like a short trip to different state or of India just to come know about Sresth Bharat. And there we enjoyed a lot and all of us share stage with short play. And here participated after a long time in any talent show, debate etc which you can watch on  YouTube Video.

Last day some were happy and some were sad because the get new friends and after one week they going to their previous destination back. But here most of us were reject at last time. But we’re happy from this experience. Being rejected from something good just means you were being pointed toward something better. But here I remember a guy again and again whom we gave a name “Galib”.  He was so fantastic on stage to present and lovely or heartbroken shahyari. Here I’m going to write this blog post on Rejection in any field like as job interview, audition or love wala relationship etc. Here I'll not tell deeply.

Such Kaho Hum Se Tumko Kitna Pyar hai

Tere Bina Kya Jeena Ab Jeena Dushvar hai

Who says rejection always has to be painful? Tell me about that person Main Us Ko Sudharta hu…. Ha ha ha :-) just kidding. You have probably been so concerned with avoiding rejection that it never occurred to you it can sometimes be a good thing. Here I’m just telling a novel idea:- stop looking at everything as success versus  failure, or acceptance versus rejection. Instead, see every situation as an opportunity to see what happens and get some feedback about the world. You’ll always get some feedback, so you can’t possibly get rejected.

Breakfast Time with Friends

          You won’t always be able to re-frame your rejections quickly and smoothly. The fact is you are going to experience hurt feelings or negative emotions in these types of situations. When this happens, you need a fast-acting toolkit of mindsets to adopt and actions to take in order to minimize these negative emotions and get back on your feet. So remember don’t take it personally. It’s not always about you because the girl who was rude to you this morning may have already had a boyfriend, or may be other reasons. The rejection might not reflect upon you in the slightest.

Another best thing is you should remember that we all say no sometimes. It’s simply a fact of life that you can’t say yes to everyone all the time. Just as you have the right to say no to someone else other people has the right to say no to you. Acknowledge that the other party is at liberty to make this choice. So try to be happy. And you should realize that you don’t need external validation for happiness. External validation feels good, but it’s nothing compared to the happiness you can achieve when you realize you don’t need it. You can leave alone.

The feeling of rejection is such a common complaint that it is a wonder that people don’t stop to think of how meaningless it is. If you can learn to re-frame it, you’ll never have to feel the sting of rejection or the paralyzing fear it can cause again. Take a normal example that maybe you approached a girl and she didn't give you her number. What if she would have been terrible for you and you saved yourself a lot of trouble by not talking to her again? Are you getting my point what I want to say?

So give up the sorry old story about losing the love of your life and move forwards. Fight? :D What for, that sounds like teenage rubbish. If they do not want to be with you, that's tough luck, I’m sure there will be some lucky person who will be very very happy to be with you.

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Narendra Modi : Achche Din Aa Gaye. Jai Ho.....!!

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Lines wriitn below in blue color were first lines when I tweeted during the vote counting. Narendra Modi a nationalist Chaiwala emerges as India's Choice. He is the man who fought alone many times. Congratulations to Narendra Modi at last Inida have won.Modi won from both places Vadodara and Varansai. Perhaps it is the first time in the history of Mother India that Ganga Aaarti is being telecast live on all the channels.It happens only because of Narendra Modi. “Chadar Chadane Wale PM Bhot Aaye, Par Abki Baar Aarti Karne Wala Koi Aaya hai,Ise Kehte Hai Parivartan.” Even USA who was not giving visa to Modi even after this victory they also bow in a moment. Bhai Jukhti Hai Dunia Bus Jukhana Wala Chayea.

May our fears be unfounded,

May all the promises made be fulfilled,

Hoping for equal opportunity for all,

Good luck to the new government

Achche Din Aa Gaye. Jai Ho. :)

Finally we get a Prime Minister who speaks Hindi.BJP come in centre because of one man called Narendra Modi. He is one man army. 125 years old congress party not get any single seat in many states.  Please give me a microscope; I want to see congress existence. Ha ha ha just kidding. Narendra Modi wons by record vote in Vadodara and Varansai. Varanasi shall set in motion the wheels of change that will take India on the path of good governance. Paragraphs written below are from the newspapers.

Narendra Modi During Ganga Aarti In Varansi

For thousands of years, the ancient city of Varanasi has been a symbol of knowledge, education and culture. Varanasi is the city of Lord Shiva; he who is a linking-bridge between various cultures;he who drank poison himself to save the World from evils& is known as Neelkanth. Today, the eyes of entire nation are set on Varanasi & the reason of it is also the Shiv Swarup of Varanasi that can not only drink poison to save the society but also play Damrooto save the people from those who push the country into the pit of despair.

          It is believed that it is in this Varanasi where Maa Ganga’s beauty and virtuesreach that highest level of piousness that even looking at the Ganges becomes a source of salvation for a person. But, today this revered Maa Ganga is struggling for its own identity. Even after spending thousands of crores of rupees, the condition of the polluted Ganges is the same. River Ganga is a symbol of prestige for Varanasi city & to revive that prestige, the need is of extensive efforts.

          Varanasi is the biggest centre point of Ganga-Jamuna culture.Varanasi is not only regarded as the most pious city of the Hindu culture, but it also holds vital importance in Jainism and Buddhism.Gautam Buddha had delivered his first sermon here at Sarnath. It was in Varanasi only where the “Shehnaai” of Bharat Ratna Bismillah Khan kept echoing of the Hindu-Muslim “UNITY”. These are the reasons why Varanasi, today is the biggest centre of spiritual knowledge in the World.

          New Delhi is the Political Capital of India and Mumbai is the Financial Capital of the Nation. On this line, I wish that Varanasi city becomes the Intellectual Capital of the country. My party and I will leave no stone unturned to make this a reality. We would want to develop Kashi in a way that will make it the centre of cultural and intellectual activities &where the stream of knowledge would continuously flow.

          Here, there are world famous educational institutions such as The Banaras Hindu University, The Sampurnanand Sanskrit University and The Mahatma Gandhi Kashi Vidhyapeeth. These institutions require constant care and up-gradation because they are not only an identity to the Banaras city, but also because they are important to ignite thelight of knowledge in the entire Purvanchal, including Bhojpuri region.

Narendra Modi In Varanasi

          Banaras city is a huge centre of tourist attraction and is also world-renowned for its handicrafts and arts. Despite that, the local youth are left unemployed. There was a time when Banarasi Paan and Banarasi Saree were the biggest trend of the market. Thousands of people involved in them got employment but today, these both specialities are fighting for theirsurvival. In these many years, we could not create a new brand for Banaras and the old ones are also losing their sheen.

          The need of the hour is that we restore the rich heritage of Varanasi. The Cottage, Handicrafts & Handloom industries in Varanasi must be revived.Employment has to be generated locally. By doing this, we would not only be providing employment to the thousands of residents of Varanasi near their homes but also bring back the lost prestige of the city.

          However, all this would not be complete without better civic amenities. Today, Banaras is suffering because of poor roads, violence, traffic-jams, and short supply of electricity and water. A big reason for these problems is the ignore attitude of the central and state governments. The interference of Mafias and Thekedars (Licence holders) in the government departments is also one of the reasons. I promise that from Centre to Banaras, the domination of Mafias involved in looting the public funds will be entirely eliminated.

          The crucial moment for the 16th Lok Sabha poll has arrived. You would remember that during the end of the 20th century, the think-tank and philosophers around the world pronounced that the 21st century will belong to India. And in the beginning of this century, under the governance of the BJP led NDA government,this future-statement was appearing to be taking shape. The World was looking at the India with an eye of hope!There was tremendous enthusiasm among the youth & every family had a success story to tell of their children. But a decade of misgovernance of UPA, instead of taking the country ahead, pushed India decades back & left the story of the prospering India incomplete.

          Friends, the time has come that we bring a change! It is said that the image of country’s politics reflects in Varanasi, so let us begin from here.

          Varanasi is the only place from where the revered Ganga is Uttar Vahini (flows towards North). It is here from where the powerful stream of the river Ganga turns directions. Thus, the start of the biggest change will also happen from Varanasi. The country will again move towards GOOD GOVERNANCE and this message initiated from the Varanasi will light a NEW HOPE in the entire country.

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Kab Se Khada Main Raahon Main Apna Dil Bichhaye Lekin Meri Mohabbat Pe Tujhko Yakeen Na Aaye....!!

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Love story is amazing only of few peoples in the entire world. I not want to unveil this mystery in front of the entire world. This story is of three years ago when I was doing my graduation in college. This college gives me some moments which I could never share with anybody.  And in this college 5 years ago, I found love. Her world was very different from that of mine but her world doesn’t comprise of my world. But here some questions will be arising. Now how does it matter? So here I don’t know do you want to know the last page of this story or are you interested in knowing the entire story.  You want to live a whole life in a single moment. But I’ve lived my entire life in a single moment. You know how’s that possible? Sometimes a particular moment leaves a deep impact on your soul, which doesn’t leave you even after your death. Something such had happened in a lonely boy’s life. I was a loner, a free bird. I was happy. Little did I know that I would be rendered with sleepless nights? And the reason would be a girl.- that girl… she is the one about whom I’m telling here. She is the story of this love. This story begins from the first day of college.

I want to hold you close to me

I want you to be mine forever

I’m excited, there is fragrance in the air.

I have become crazy for you

I can see through I close my eyes.

I can’t express in words the love I feel for you.

Since from last three years on 24^th april,2011 I’m posting a blog post with the same title “I Still Remember That Day When You Rejected My Love” and also update a status on Facebook . Now this time it’ll be tweeted only on Twitter.  Even today I remember that day, it was Sunday, when I was going to mess with my friends for breakfast. I was very excited just to express my feelings. But here I’ll not discuss any incident of that day. But I was really very happy to express my feeling for someone. Sometimes you like a person’s small gesture and fall in love with her. I was touched by her kindness to such an extent that I prayed for her well being instead of mine.

Kabse Khada Main Raahon Main Apna Dil Bichhaye

Lekin Meri Mohabbat Pe Tujhko Yakeen Na Aaye

Kya dil hai tera  patthar ka Ya  chahat nahi dildaar ki

Dar hai kahin is jeevan ka Sapna tut na jaaye

Main ban jaau paagal aur duniya hasi udae

Kahde mujhse main mar jaooun

                   Ya thaam le baahein yaar ki....!! 

Now just come on the blog title. I always tell myself these things about everything happen for a reason and try to be positive. But it’s always better hearing it or reading it from someone else makes me feel much better about my experiences. Normally I’ve seen that when anyone of my classmate falls in love with another friend of the class and he keep asking her to accept his proposal. And it has been 1 year since this process has been stuck on same stage. He keeps begging and she rejecting his proposal. The result of this love has been the inclination of the boy towards alcohols, cigarettes etc and irresponsible life. Because of foolish love for her he has almost got a year drop and effect on the girl is equal to big zero. :D she is happy with her life, family and friends but she has no concern for that guy. She is scoring high marks in academics and also improving her personality every day. She was known to be short tempered but today I can see a very good controlling power in her. But the boy was perfect in 1^st year of graduation and was the best boy when it comes to maintaining sincerity and socialism. But today what I’m watching how he has turned his favorable life into an unfortunate one. All other friends feel pity for him but no one gives him sympathy because it was himself who have wasted his life just because he loves a girl like a baby loves his mother but who can be loyal like mother? Yaa I’m right. This is what young generation’s boys don’t understand.

One day I’ve asked the boy to stop following her and start following his career and studies, she will automatically come to you once he gets a good job and living standard or may be find someone other better. But every sentence of mine is as useless to him as Lalu Prasad Yadav's speech in the Parliament. Even you can get much more jokes like this…. :D. I know that I have the potential of influencing someone. :-) But here I have failed to change his ideology about the girl because that's not Love which he has for her, it’s just an extreme obsession. He just wants to own the girl. He wants the girl to be his in any condition. He is ready to wait for 7 years or even 14. He is ready to quit his family, religion and friends for her. He is ready to go to any level for impressing and getting her. There's a difference between enforcing someone to be with you and winning someone to love you as you love them. And when you do the latter one, you become inspiration for everyone but if you do the former one, you become an evil for the person you enforced to be with you and for everyone who saw you doing that. But when there is an obsession, your brain stops functioning in the right direction….!! :-) 

I remember my period when I was intrigued into a girl for a long time. I had no other work in my life than checking my mobile after every 30 seconds if a message popped in or not. Even when my mobile used to be on the General mode and I knew that a Ringtone will ping me as soon as a message will come on my mobile, I used to check considering that a fault would have arisen when her message would have came. This is how I kept augmenting my obsession and one day, when I came to knew that she left me and she is never going to talk to me again… I cried like hell. I cried so much that after a moment, even tears refused to show up. And the other one thing which used to be there was Facebook where I used to update about how sad I am and how much I am interested in ending my life. I used to do nothing except sitting idle in room or somewhere else. Reason of wasting this precious time of mine was obsession for that girl.

Coming to the girl whom my friend is trying to enforce to be with him- She used to like one of other college who was of her caste. Initially, she thought that as caste is not a problem and as he is single too, she may achieve him very soon. But the fate has something else. The boy never gave a look to her even when he knew that the girl is mad for him. He never ever tried to tell her that she is no one for him. He kept doing this for 3 years with her. Finally, one day he said YES. Every one of us knew that he replied positively because he wants to pass his time with her and leave when once done. But she never thought in the same manner because she was obsessed for him. She just wanted him. She was Okay even if he showered fake love for her but she wanted his love anyhow. At last, he left her and he insulted her every time when they were in relationship because he knew that she will bear all because she is obsessed. This resulted in her health, attitude and academics badly. I always felt bad whenever I used to see her crying like anything. But Solution? Null, because obsession ruled her. 


           Today's young boys and girls should understand that Love is not about showing obsession or getting obsessed with the person you love. Loving someone is far different than getting obsessed for them. If you love someone, you can see her getting her hands pampered by her male friends because you know that your love is strong but if you are obsessed, you will get short-tempered and you will hurt yourself after seeing her hand getting rubbed with someone else's hand. You will not even hurt her for this because you are obsessed for her. You can harm the world but you will never harm her. If you love someone, keep in mind that your happiness should be in the person's happiness and not in your happiness. And your Love should be Unconditional. You can never enforce anything on the person you love. You should be happy in whatever they give you- Either Love or Hatred. I am happy with my life with whatever she gave me because I never obsessed her, I always loved her.

But I love her, when she is at her best and worst. I've experienced it all... :-) :D. I’ve seen tears streaming down her face. Her eyes, so innocent, so pure, so broken, so honest when she cries. I've seen her infuriating, literally infuriating. Her face turns so red when she's mad. I’ve seen her smile like a fool. And her eye sparkles when she is laughing and smiling and just at her best mood. So beautiful. I accepted her in that way. Once, I saw that she wants to break off with me, I let her go without even asking the reason. Once, I saw that she don't even want to meet me, I stopped all my interactions with her. Because, I killed my obsession long before when that girl fooled me. This time I made it sure that I will not carry any obsession for this girl. And see, today she is… and I don't have any problem. :-) 


          Enough said. I know I have used obsession for numerous times above. Forgive me for that. :-) I just want people to be happy in love rather than getting hurt every another minute.

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My First Love ....!!

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It was first day of college

The day my eyes fell on you first, was breezy
You came in an expedite to class, as your hair flow freely

Your dark hair was cascading like as waterfall

Your sinister smile was its sword which could not be explained in single word

Your eyes were looking as dark as castle situated in moat by midnight

You were glowing like a star
I was swept off by that magnificent first sight
She was the one, echoed my silly thought
It was like a fairy tale came into reality and I was stunned
That serene face of yours got imprinted on my mind
Days passed and I started staring at you, whenever I get a chance.
Not knowing I was into some sort of mental trance
I started liking whatever you like, forgetting what I need
I changed myself so that you would give me a little heed
Sometimes you caught my eyes, leaving me embarrassed
I felt the real pain of unrequited love as I was ignored
And one day, you made my heart leaps as you smiled at me
I still remember that wonderful moment of glee
You occupied my sleepless nights as I dreamt with my eyes open
Thinking that you liked me too, but alas I was wrong and waken
As I came to know, you liked him, more handsome than me
I told myself it’s not true and I refused to believe
The pain was awful and left me with a scar
Within me I was forced to a tacit war
It was not easy to get over those frozen memories
I began mending my broken heart with other thoughts
I was happy for you and want you to be happy always
I felt you deserved a person like him, as you are too good for me
As time heals everything, I became a new being
And life gave me a new meaning
It’s just infatuation, I've undergone and not real love
I was too juvenile to discern between the two
I took a wrong decision in having fallen for you
Maybe you are not the right girl for me in God’s point of view

I had not loved anyone in all my life as you
True love would never make you to force a change
It accepts you, as the real you, whatever you are
However it is real true, that first love will not be forgotten
Not as a loss for me, but as the one to strengthen me
May be, the real one born for me is yet to come
I keep waiting, my fingers crossed for her, her dame

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Loving Wishes Papa For A Wonderful Birthday..... Stay Fantastic.... Happy Birthday.....!!

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          Wishing you a very joyful happy birthday....!! You are more then a great father. You are an inspiration, a teacher and a friend. Love and laughter are two of the things that you have given me that make life more fun.
          As a child whenever I become upset or tensed about something, I came straight to you. And after coming I share all my tensions with you. It’s the same even today. Whenever I’m upset or I have a doubt, I come directly to you, father. 
          We (My brother and I ) have no complaints against father. He gave us education, gave us the courage to fend for ourselves. He never let us misses anything.
I have recently realize that feeling is not just feeling any emotion. It is a tear which falls from the eyes. It is a desire which remains in your heart. Those unsaid talks, those incomplete words, that pain.. before emotion…its very important to feel them. Emotions are not just a few words… sometimes it is a feeling of happiness, pain, love which comes from your soul. This is true feeling.

Papa ki ek dua zindagi bana degi, khud royenge magar tujhko hasa denge

kahbi bhul ke bhi papa ko na rulana, Tumhari ek galti poora arsh hila degi

          I don’t hide anything from you. I believe that parents are like bows and children, arrows. Until the bow does not release the arrow, how will it hit target?
Sometimes when I see peoples of this world enjoying than I am not seeing how happy they are. There are billions of people in the world. But to spend your life, you need only one person. And in my life, you are that person. You are not just my family, but my world too.
          On your birthday, I remember those moments of love and caring that you had spent in my childhood days. I remember you made lots of sacrifices and took great pain only to ensure that I can live comfortably. You have always loved me unconditionally and I am sure in my lifetime, I will never found anyone else who can love me as you have.
          I am really blessed to have you as my Father in this life. You understand me like no one else and you can see through my face to know if I am happy or hurt. You had pushed every limit to ensure that I get good education in my life. You had spent sleepless nights when I was ill and taught me all the good values of life. I would like you to know that you have done a remarkable job in raising your kids into mature and responsible citizens of this country.
          You have a big and kind heart and I have been in awe always on witnessing your generosity. I know, you were hurt few times because of my actions and I feel sorry for that. I can only promise that I will never hurt you again. Always remember that your son loves you with all his heart even though I may not say it daily.
Thanks a lot for all your love and sacrifice.

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Life With Me Is Not A Short Story....!!

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People believe is serendipity, Success, which is often in some convoluted manner a product of circumstance. While endeavor and focus are pavement material, the road is often travelled by factors beyond the perceivable laws of navigation. Many a mute Milton, an unrecognized Einstein or a drowned Darwin leaves without making an impact or telling the story. Writers, Scholars often acknowledge the assistance of teammates and colleagues who have helped and aided their journey to the victory stand. I have a different list, my bibliography is different.

Success is rarely repeated. Yet you can learn from success and inherit the wisdom. To therefore believe you can replicate is to overlook the fact that success can then be a multiple function which surely it is not. People who believe that they can poach a success team and replicate success are bound to be only chasing a mirage. The hunger, the feel and drive that makes a team contributes largely to success therefore success arrives at the doorstep of a vibrant team. A vibrant team is not always about a talented group, it is about inspiring, sharing passion and putting the bricks together. This comes both as a challenge and a solution to those who start of.

Startups obviously cannot hire the very best. Good leaders invest in men just as good investors enter the market. Angel investors and dynamic leaders thus make the difference. Just as angel investors need to be patient, dogged and hopeful – infect put money and hope in the same basket. Angel leaders must also understand that building chemistry and ambition is how you allow boys to grow into men.

From the one opens up the office and doesn’t frown when required to serve a cuppa tea well after office hours to an important guest or a late working colleague to the leader who builds passion. Everyone in a startup work on an untested ground. The weather of this journey is unpredictable, it is therefore necessary to have a team that not only gives you space when requires but cuddles when called. There is no pre-arrived hero in this experiment. A startup is like a plant nursery, each sapling can grow and flower, however each sapling needs care. Each needs attention. With care and attention, even the organization understands the hidden talents and the hidden capabilities which remain to be used and exploited. Next time a startup recruits a team, they need to understand that they are not recruiting an employee, they are inviting a team member.

They are two ways: look up and admire the stars or create them and look up with pride. Run behind the stars – you will collect the stardust, pause and create them – you will get the applause. Search for the stars in the team and help them shine rather than look up at the theatre of the star performers. Don’t just applaud, be the recipient. Create your own stars.

The other day someone declared that my journey is over, I saw a bird fly up in the air and its buoyancy reminded me that I need to keep flying. The prophets of doom have written me off, it shall be my pleasure to prove them wrong. Big victories don’t have early finishes. If life is a magnum opus, dramatic moments are bound to be its part. Life with me is not a short story. It is not a simple tale with a twist in the tail. It’s a novel full of novelty, strife and challenge.

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Time And Tide Wait For None - Just As It Was About To End....!!

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Parindon ko milegi manzil ek din.... Yeh failey hue unke pank bolte hai.

  Wahi log rahte hai khamosh aksar....Zamane main jinke hunar bolte hai....!!

We meet for the first time in the New Year- 2014. Leaving all that we had in 2013 behind. The relationship that bloomed in the last year is finally at its height now. No need to remain in the past. The one who remains in the past is a stale body and soul. The one who is in present is the one with whom the life is to be celebrated with. Hence, I want all of you to finally leave last year and step up into this new one in the same way as you change the calendar of your house with the provenance of a year. And with it, change your habits. Even if now you will keep on giving excuses, it's better to leave your life and transfer your soul into a new body which shall respect it more than you do. So better change yourself now. It's high time that the excuses have been the main focus and lead of our life. Let's trash them with 2014. From here, we have 365 days to change ourselves into someone that we would be proud of for our whole life. Change only happens when we push ourselves towards new environment. Let's leave our comfort zone. In this New Year, work harder to achieve what you want in life, be with your parents and family, respect them, follow them, but only till you feel their decisions aren't meddling in your journey towards your Dream. At least, first have a dream. And not just one dream but many. Then, you will have a dashing routine that will give you as much pleasure as possible. Stop wasting your time in bloody love relationship. Life is bigger than all these. Our parents had no relationships, they got married by their parents' choice. And see how happy they are with us today. Leave this job of searching a partner for yourself for your parents. You focus on your life now. Later, don't regret when you won't have enough in life to have what you need. With this pravachan, I would like to wish all of you a Very Happy New Year. 

About 2013 what I can say. It was totally different because with the start of 2013 I’ve travelled to Delhi. 2013 was a travelling year. Every month I was travelling via coach of Indian Railways. Last year I’d travelled so many places of different state. This year I’ve visited to Allhabad, Kanpur, Etawa, Farukhabad, Jaipur, Nahargrah, Shahpura ,Alwar, Gandhinagar etc. All these places were new for me and visited first time to these places. Menas I’ve totally enjoyed last year.

During training in CMC, I’m come in contact with Abhishek Asht, Abhishek Kumar and Manish Dubey. All these three friends are from three different culture and zone of India. But I’ve enjoyed so much with Abhishek Asht on chating. All were so funny in our class. I’m to close all of a little bit during Abhishek Asht’s birthday. Abhishek Aasht you are really funny and tension free guy. Even I can’t forget Manish Dubey.

What I can say about college. Before it, I’ve written a blog also. That is enough. In June I was come to college and was the formality to come college for submitting our industrial projects. I not want to go college but due to some reasons I was going. I’ve completed my graduation. A good job, maybe a great pay and loads of independence that you craved for all these years is awaiting you and yet there is a part of you that is happy to be stuck in college because you know that these joyful carefree days will never come back. Even though I graduated a few months back I recently saw some college snaps in my friend’s facebook album and it brought back flooding all old memories- the good, the bad and the ugly.

Just as it was about to end, Just as life was about to take a new bend,
A thought flashed into my mind, That I was to leave my college days behind.

How I can forget about RSS. Usually I was going to RSS office and even today I’m going there. Here so much friends come in contact. First time I met so many karyakarta of different state. I also met the parbhari of Jamu and Kashmir. And also get a chance of greeting to Mr. Amit Shah, who is the parbhari of Uttar Pardesh from BJP and was a former Home Minister in Gujarat.

Now I’ll not discuss about previous year. Keep memories in mind. World progresses very fast. It does not wait for anyone. Time does not stop and everything happens in a hurry. I am surprised to see the amount of changes that has happened in just a small course of time that I have been aware of. You never know when the things might advance. Time and tide wait for none. Bachpan main ye thought padha tha or abtak Fit hain dimaag mein. I agree with this thought that no matter what circumstances you are in, you must believe that "This will Pass". Success and failure are creations of human beings, there is something which is beyond it-LIFE….!! At last I’ll like to say life is one rollercoaster ride but the ride only gets better as you grow older and wiser. Now I’m going to stop my parvachchan….. J

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