Kab Se Khada Main Raahon Main Apna Dil Bichhaye Lekin Meri Mohabbat Pe Tujhko Yakeen Na Aaye....!!

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Love story is amazing only of few peoples in the entire world. I not want to unveil this mystery in front of the entire world. This story is of three years ago when I was doing my graduation in college. This college gives me some moments which I could never share with anybody.  And in this college 5 years ago, I found love. Her world was very different from that of mine but her world doesn’t comprise of my world. But here some questions will be arising. Now how does it matter? So here I don’t know do you want to know the last page of this story or are you interested in knowing the entire story.  You want to live a whole life in a single moment. But I’ve lived my entire life in a single moment. You know how’s that possible? Sometimes a particular moment leaves a deep impact on your soul, which doesn’t leave you even after your death. Something such had happened in a lonely boy’s life. I was a loner, a free bird. I was happy. Little did I know that I would be rendered with sleepless nights? And the reason would be a girl.- that girl… she is the one about whom I’m telling here. She is the story of this love. This story begins from the first day of college.

I want to hold you close to me

I want you to be mine forever

I’m excited, there is fragrance in the air.

I have become crazy for you

I can see through I close my eyes.

I can’t express in words the love I feel for you.

Since from last three years on 24^th april,2011 I’m posting a blog post with the same title “I Still Remember That Day When You Rejected My Love” and also update a status on Facebook . Now this time it’ll be tweeted only on Twitter.  Even today I remember that day, it was Sunday, when I was going to mess with my friends for breakfast. I was very excited just to express my feelings. But here I’ll not discuss any incident of that day. But I was really very happy to express my feeling for someone. Sometimes you like a person’s small gesture and fall in love with her. I was touched by her kindness to such an extent that I prayed for her well being instead of mine.

Kabse Khada Main Raahon Main Apna Dil Bichhaye

Lekin Meri Mohabbat Pe Tujhko Yakeen Na Aaye

Kya dil hai tera  patthar ka Ya  chahat nahi dildaar ki

Dar hai kahin is jeevan ka Sapna tut na jaaye

Main ban jaau paagal aur duniya hasi udae

Kahde mujhse main mar jaooun

                   Ya thaam le baahein yaar ki....!! 

Now just come on the blog title. I always tell myself these things about everything happen for a reason and try to be positive. But it’s always better hearing it or reading it from someone else makes me feel much better about my experiences. Normally I’ve seen that when anyone of my classmate falls in love with another friend of the class and he keep asking her to accept his proposal. And it has been 1 year since this process has been stuck on same stage. He keeps begging and she rejecting his proposal. The result of this love has been the inclination of the boy towards alcohols, cigarettes etc and irresponsible life. Because of foolish love for her he has almost got a year drop and effect on the girl is equal to big zero. :D she is happy with her life, family and friends but she has no concern for that guy. She is scoring high marks in academics and also improving her personality every day. She was known to be short tempered but today I can see a very good controlling power in her. But the boy was perfect in 1^st year of graduation and was the best boy when it comes to maintaining sincerity and socialism. But today what I’m watching how he has turned his favorable life into an unfortunate one. All other friends feel pity for him but no one gives him sympathy because it was himself who have wasted his life just because he loves a girl like a baby loves his mother but who can be loyal like mother? Yaa I’m right. This is what young generation’s boys don’t understand.

One day I’ve asked the boy to stop following her and start following his career and studies, she will automatically come to you once he gets a good job and living standard or may be find someone other better. But every sentence of mine is as useless to him as Lalu Prasad Yadav's speech in the Parliament. Even you can get much more jokes like this…. :D. I know that I have the potential of influencing someone. :-) But here I have failed to change his ideology about the girl because that's not Love which he has for her, it’s just an extreme obsession. He just wants to own the girl. He wants the girl to be his in any condition. He is ready to wait for 7 years or even 14. He is ready to quit his family, religion and friends for her. He is ready to go to any level for impressing and getting her. There's a difference between enforcing someone to be with you and winning someone to love you as you love them. And when you do the latter one, you become inspiration for everyone but if you do the former one, you become an evil for the person you enforced to be with you and for everyone who saw you doing that. But when there is an obsession, your brain stops functioning in the right direction….!! :-) 

I remember my period when I was intrigued into a girl for a long time. I had no other work in my life than checking my mobile after every 30 seconds if a message popped in or not. Even when my mobile used to be on the General mode and I knew that a Ringtone will ping me as soon as a message will come on my mobile, I used to check considering that a fault would have arisen when her message would have came. This is how I kept augmenting my obsession and one day, when I came to knew that she left me and she is never going to talk to me again… I cried like hell. I cried so much that after a moment, even tears refused to show up. And the other one thing which used to be there was Facebook where I used to update about how sad I am and how much I am interested in ending my life. I used to do nothing except sitting idle in room or somewhere else. Reason of wasting this precious time of mine was obsession for that girl.

Coming to the girl whom my friend is trying to enforce to be with him- She used to like one of other college who was of her caste. Initially, she thought that as caste is not a problem and as he is single too, she may achieve him very soon. But the fate has something else. The boy never gave a look to her even when he knew that the girl is mad for him. He never ever tried to tell her that she is no one for him. He kept doing this for 3 years with her. Finally, one day he said YES. Every one of us knew that he replied positively because he wants to pass his time with her and leave when once done. But she never thought in the same manner because she was obsessed for him. She just wanted him. She was Okay even if he showered fake love for her but she wanted his love anyhow. At last, he left her and he insulted her every time when they were in relationship because he knew that she will bear all because she is obsessed. This resulted in her health, attitude and academics badly. I always felt bad whenever I used to see her crying like anything. But Solution? Null, because obsession ruled her. 


           Today's young boys and girls should understand that Love is not about showing obsession or getting obsessed with the person you love. Loving someone is far different than getting obsessed for them. If you love someone, you can see her getting her hands pampered by her male friends because you know that your love is strong but if you are obsessed, you will get short-tempered and you will hurt yourself after seeing her hand getting rubbed with someone else's hand. You will not even hurt her for this because you are obsessed for her. You can harm the world but you will never harm her. If you love someone, keep in mind that your happiness should be in the person's happiness and not in your happiness. And your Love should be Unconditional. You can never enforce anything on the person you love. You should be happy in whatever they give you- Either Love or Hatred. I am happy with my life with whatever she gave me because I never obsessed her, I always loved her.

But I love her, when she is at her best and worst. I've experienced it all... :-) :D. I’ve seen tears streaming down her face. Her eyes, so innocent, so pure, so broken, so honest when she cries. I've seen her infuriating, literally infuriating. Her face turns so red when she's mad. I’ve seen her smile like a fool. And her eye sparkles when she is laughing and smiling and just at her best mood. So beautiful. I accepted her in that way. Once, I saw that she wants to break off with me, I let her go without even asking the reason. Once, I saw that she don't even want to meet me, I stopped all my interactions with her. Because, I killed my obsession long before when that girl fooled me. This time I made it sure that I will not carry any obsession for this girl. And see, today she is… and I don't have any problem. :-) 


          Enough said. I know I have used obsession for numerous times above. Forgive me for that. :-) I just want people to be happy in love rather than getting hurt every another minute.

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My First Love ....!!

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It was first day of college

The day my eyes fell on you first, was breezy
You came in an expedite to class, as your hair flow freely

Your dark hair was cascading like as waterfall

Your sinister smile was its sword which could not be explained in single word

Your eyes were looking as dark as castle situated in moat by midnight

You were glowing like a star
I was swept off by that magnificent first sight
She was the one, echoed my silly thought
It was like a fairy tale came into reality and I was stunned
That serene face of yours got imprinted on my mind
Days passed and I started staring at you, whenever I get a chance.
Not knowing I was into some sort of mental trance
I started liking whatever you like, forgetting what I need
I changed myself so that you would give me a little heed
Sometimes you caught my eyes, leaving me embarrassed
I felt the real pain of unrequited love as I was ignored
And one day, you made my heart leaps as you smiled at me
I still remember that wonderful moment of glee
You occupied my sleepless nights as I dreamt with my eyes open
Thinking that you liked me too, but alas I was wrong and waken
As I came to know, you liked him, more handsome than me
I told myself it’s not true and I refused to believe
The pain was awful and left me with a scar
Within me I was forced to a tacit war
It was not easy to get over those frozen memories
I began mending my broken heart with other thoughts
I was happy for you and want you to be happy always
I felt you deserved a person like him, as you are too good for me
As time heals everything, I became a new being
And life gave me a new meaning
It’s just infatuation, I've undergone and not real love
I was too juvenile to discern between the two
I took a wrong decision in having fallen for you
Maybe you are not the right girl for me in God’s point of view

I had not loved anyone in all my life as you
True love would never make you to force a change
It accepts you, as the real you, whatever you are
However it is real true, that first love will not be forgotten
Not as a loss for me, but as the one to strengthen me
May be, the real one born for me is yet to come
I keep waiting, my fingers crossed for her, her dame

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Loving Wishes Papa For A Wonderful Birthday..... Stay Fantastic.... Happy Birthday.....!!

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          Wishing you a very joyful happy birthday....!! You are more then a great father. You are an inspiration, a teacher and a friend. Love and laughter are two of the things that you have given me that make life more fun.
          As a child whenever I become upset or tensed about something, I came straight to you. And after coming I share all my tensions with you. It’s the same even today. Whenever I’m upset or I have a doubt, I come directly to you, father. 
          We (My brother and I ) have no complaints against father. He gave us education, gave us the courage to fend for ourselves. He never let us misses anything.
I have recently realize that feeling is not just feeling any emotion. It is a tear which falls from the eyes. It is a desire which remains in your heart. Those unsaid talks, those incomplete words, that pain.. before emotion…its very important to feel them. Emotions are not just a few words… sometimes it is a feeling of happiness, pain, love which comes from your soul. This is true feeling.

Papa ki ek dua zindagi bana degi, khud royenge magar tujhko hasa denge

kahbi bhul ke bhi papa ko na rulana, Tumhari ek galti poora arsh hila degi

          I don’t hide anything from you. I believe that parents are like bows and children, arrows. Until the bow does not release the arrow, how will it hit target?
Sometimes when I see peoples of this world enjoying than I am not seeing how happy they are. There are billions of people in the world. But to spend your life, you need only one person. And in my life, you are that person. You are not just my family, but my world too.
          On your birthday, I remember those moments of love and caring that you had spent in my childhood days. I remember you made lots of sacrifices and took great pain only to ensure that I can live comfortably. You have always loved me unconditionally and I am sure in my lifetime, I will never found anyone else who can love me as you have.
          I am really blessed to have you as my Father in this life. You understand me like no one else and you can see through my face to know if I am happy or hurt. You had pushed every limit to ensure that I get good education in my life. You had spent sleepless nights when I was ill and taught me all the good values of life. I would like you to know that you have done a remarkable job in raising your kids into mature and responsible citizens of this country.
          You have a big and kind heart and I have been in awe always on witnessing your generosity. I know, you were hurt few times because of my actions and I feel sorry for that. I can only promise that I will never hurt you again. Always remember that your son loves you with all his heart even though I may not say it daily.
Thanks a lot for all your love and sacrifice.

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Life With Me Is Not A Short Story....!!

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People believe is serendipity, Success, which is often in some convoluted manner a product of circumstance. While endeavor and focus are pavement material, the road is often travelled by factors beyond the perceivable laws of navigation. Many a mute Milton, an unrecognized Einstein or a drowned Darwin leaves without making an impact or telling the story. Writers, Scholars often acknowledge the assistance of teammates and colleagues who have helped and aided their journey to the victory stand. I have a different list, my bibliography is different.

Success is rarely repeated. Yet you can learn from success and inherit the wisdom. To therefore believe you can replicate is to overlook the fact that success can then be a multiple function which surely it is not. People who believe that they can poach a success team and replicate success are bound to be only chasing a mirage. The hunger, the feel and drive that makes a team contributes largely to success therefore success arrives at the doorstep of a vibrant team. A vibrant team is not always about a talented group, it is about inspiring, sharing passion and putting the bricks together. This comes both as a challenge and a solution to those who start of.

Startups obviously cannot hire the very best. Good leaders invest in men just as good investors enter the market. Angel investors and dynamic leaders thus make the difference. Just as angel investors need to be patient, dogged and hopeful – infect put money and hope in the same basket. Angel leaders must also understand that building chemistry and ambition is how you allow boys to grow into men.

From the one opens up the office and doesn’t frown when required to serve a cuppa tea well after office hours to an important guest or a late working colleague to the leader who builds passion. Everyone in a startup work on an untested ground. The weather of this journey is unpredictable, it is therefore necessary to have a team that not only gives you space when requires but cuddles when called. There is no pre-arrived hero in this experiment. A startup is like a plant nursery, each sapling can grow and flower, however each sapling needs care. Each needs attention. With care and attention, even the organization understands the hidden talents and the hidden capabilities which remain to be used and exploited. Next time a startup recruits a team, they need to understand that they are not recruiting an employee, they are inviting a team member.

They are two ways: look up and admire the stars or create them and look up with pride. Run behind the stars – you will collect the stardust, pause and create them – you will get the applause. Search for the stars in the team and help them shine rather than look up at the theatre of the star performers. Don’t just applaud, be the recipient. Create your own stars.

The other day someone declared that my journey is over, I saw a bird fly up in the air and its buoyancy reminded me that I need to keep flying. The prophets of doom have written me off, it shall be my pleasure to prove them wrong. Big victories don’t have early finishes. If life is a magnum opus, dramatic moments are bound to be its part. Life with me is not a short story. It is not a simple tale with a twist in the tail. It’s a novel full of novelty, strife and challenge.

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Time And Tide Wait For None - Just As It Was About To End....!!

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Parindon ko milegi manzil ek din.... Yeh failey hue unke pank bolte hai.

  Wahi log rahte hai khamosh aksar....Zamane main jinke hunar bolte hai....!!

We meet for the first time in the New Year- 2014. Leaving all that we had in 2013 behind. The relationship that bloomed in the last year is finally at its height now. No need to remain in the past. The one who remains in the past is a stale body and soul. The one who is in present is the one with whom the life is to be celebrated with. Hence, I want all of you to finally leave last year and step up into this new one in the same way as you change the calendar of your house with the provenance of a year. And with it, change your habits. Even if now you will keep on giving excuses, it's better to leave your life and transfer your soul into a new body which shall respect it more than you do. So better change yourself now. It's high time that the excuses have been the main focus and lead of our life. Let's trash them with 2014. From here, we have 365 days to change ourselves into someone that we would be proud of for our whole life. Change only happens when we push ourselves towards new environment. Let's leave our comfort zone. In this New Year, work harder to achieve what you want in life, be with your parents and family, respect them, follow them, but only till you feel their decisions aren't meddling in your journey towards your Dream. At least, first have a dream. And not just one dream but many. Then, you will have a dashing routine that will give you as much pleasure as possible. Stop wasting your time in bloody love relationship. Life is bigger than all these. Our parents had no relationships, they got married by their parents' choice. And see how happy they are with us today. Leave this job of searching a partner for yourself for your parents. You focus on your life now. Later, don't regret when you won't have enough in life to have what you need. With this pravachan, I would like to wish all of you a Very Happy New Year. 

About 2013 what I can say. It was totally different because with the start of 2013 I’ve travelled to Delhi. 2013 was a travelling year. Every month I was travelling via coach of Indian Railways. Last year I’d travelled so many places of different state. This year I’ve visited to Allhabad, Kanpur, Etawa, Farukhabad, Jaipur, Nahargrah, Shahpura ,Alwar, Gandhinagar etc. All these places were new for me and visited first time to these places. Menas I’ve totally enjoyed last year.

During training in CMC, I’m come in contact with Abhishek Asht, Abhishek Kumar and Manish Dubey. All these three friends are from three different culture and zone of India. But I’ve enjoyed so much with Abhishek Asht on chating. All were so funny in our class. I’m to close all of a little bit during Abhishek Asht’s birthday. Abhishek Aasht you are really funny and tension free guy. Even I can’t forget Manish Dubey.

What I can say about college. Before it, I’ve written a blog also. That is enough. In June I was come to college and was the formality to come college for submitting our industrial projects. I not want to go college but due to some reasons I was going. I’ve completed my graduation. A good job, maybe a great pay and loads of independence that you craved for all these years is awaiting you and yet there is a part of you that is happy to be stuck in college because you know that these joyful carefree days will never come back. Even though I graduated a few months back I recently saw some college snaps in my friend’s facebook album and it brought back flooding all old memories- the good, the bad and the ugly.

Just as it was about to end, Just as life was about to take a new bend,
A thought flashed into my mind, That I was to leave my college days behind.

How I can forget about RSS. Usually I was going to RSS office and even today I’m going there. Here so much friends come in contact. First time I met so many karyakarta of different state. I also met the parbhari of Jamu and Kashmir. And also get a chance of greeting to Mr. Amit Shah, who is the parbhari of Uttar Pardesh from BJP and was a former Home Minister in Gujarat.

Now I’ll not discuss about previous year. Keep memories in mind. World progresses very fast. It does not wait for anyone. Time does not stop and everything happens in a hurry. I am surprised to see the amount of changes that has happened in just a small course of time that I have been aware of. You never know when the things might advance. Time and tide wait for none. Bachpan main ye thought padha tha or abtak Fit hain dimaag mein. I agree with this thought that no matter what circumstances you are in, you must believe that "This will Pass". Success and failure are creations of human beings, there is something which is beyond it-LIFE….!! At last I’ll like to say life is one rollercoaster ride but the ride only gets better as you grow older and wiser. Now I’m going to stop my parvachchan….. J

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One Mantra To success - Neither Hard Work Nor Smart Work....!!

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After coming from Jaipur, Rajasthan I’ve watched may movies. Some were old and some were new. And yesterday night I was watching R….Rajkumar.  Every one of us loves watching movies. And indubitably, we like the ones where there’s this guy who looks so sad and terrified that the sky might just fall on his head, loses at something over and over again till he finally gets the inspiration to work extremely hard and manages to succeed.

But, reality is far from what these movies show. In real life, if you try and try and try and try and don’t succeed, it probably means that it is not your cup of tea. As a kid, I had friends who were deemed intelligent by everyone around because they had real impressive report cards. My story, well, was just the opposite. As a kid, this wreaked havoc on my self esteem. Believe me, I tried. I read books, and did all the stuff they did. The only reason I passed the exams was because I had an eidetic memory.

One day, a friend suggested that I pursue my hobby of painting and sketching. Taking this advice seriously, I went ahead with it, and got really good. Even today when I get a chance of painting, I don’t leave it. Some day before my cousin Sarika asked for drawing some pictures on drawing sheet. I’ve done it with the help of my brother Dinesh Kumar Sahrawat. Underdogs like me exist. They are not fiction. But what is unreal is the winning. Look at one of my school Rocky. He fails the first time. The second time round, he and his adversary come ready. And then he finally wins. More often than not, underdogs don’t win. In fact, you become classified an underdog only if you fail at something. When incessant trials result in failure, it does not mean you are not smart enough or you did not work hard enough. It just means there is something else you are good at. It just means your strengths lie elsewhere. If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it’ll always fail.

You will face challenges. How you deal with them is what counts. Challenges are not to be tackled like a raging bull. They are to be managed. In every field of life management is necessary. You have to play your strengths. Every person is different as is every startup. I can say that everyone is unique or original. If you are planning on starting a new company, remember one thing that it will not be like any other on this planet. Your products might be similar to some in the market. But your company will be unique in that it will have its own distinct pulse. It will have unique growth and will have its own personality. Don’t be sad if your company does not work like your competitor. Everything’s fine as long as the work gets done.  Your company might start working at 11 am and stop by 6 pm, but you end up completing twice as much work as your competitor, you really have no reason to feel low.

There is only one mantra to success, and it is neither hard work nor smart work – you just have to play your strengths the way it would prove advantageous for you. Here I’m not saying that leave hard work. No don’t leave it. If you will play with your strengths than you must have hard work without any smart work….!!

Sachin Tendulkar The Greatest Batsman Of Our Generation....!!

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So much is happening in the world except I and my progress. I am sitting on the same seat with the same proportions of movement in my emotions, sentiments and excitements but some happenings in the world are exciting me too much.

As I sit down to pen these lines I get the feeling that the person about whom I am going to write is probably the most beloved son of this great nation. Even if someone tries to include the life and performances of this great soul in an article, I am sure they are bound to fail as this man is beyond the scope of imagination.

There is no doubt that Sachin Tendulkar arguably the best batsman this world has ever seen.Starting as a 16 year old boy, Tendulkar is at the zenith of success and amazingly his hunger wasn’t seemed to end. After Starting the career against a formidable Pakistan side there has been no looking back for Sachin Tendulkar as he still continues to create history every time he walks on to the field. Most appearances in ODI’s, most ODI hundreds, most test hundreds, most international hundreds, most runs in test and one day cricket history, most runs in a calendar year, most runs in any world cup, the pages of record books would prove to be insufficient to record the achievements of this cricketing Maestro.

Whenever an idol is made in our life, the reason of it is his qualities that you want to possess in you but you are still farther from it. You respect your idol because he has achieved it with lots of hard work and dedication. The perseverance and patience that he went through a long time is what interests you. Once upon a time, when you used to tell someone the person from whom you take inspiration from or the person whom you see as your idol, what you used to get from your friends was a big tap on your back or lots of praises for selecting the best idol in your life. But, now-a-days, if you'll tell someone that the particular person is your idol in life, he will start making negative comments on him, abuse his previous works, starts telling you every possible reasons to prove that the person is not deserving to be at the place where he is and for the most, he will keep making fun and dig at you for selecting that respective person as your idol. But, for me, I don't care for anyone's view once I am determined that "Yes, this is the person whom I see as my idol". And one such person whom I see as the second best idol and inspiration  in my life after Mr. Amitabh Bachchan, its SACHIN TENDULKAR and also MS Dhoni.

I find fitness and stamina the biggest drawback I have in me. But when I count the number of runs that he has scored by running on the pitch, I feel ashamed of myself. Even at the age of 40, he runs like a new athlete and tries to reach the crease before that diplomatic ball reaches, and I at 22, starts panting because of exertion. If I find that I am good at something, I become over-confident about it for some time, but seeing Sachin's consistency, I have got to learn that even if the world bows in front of you, you should work harder just as you are performing the task for the first time to prove some judges that you deserve the place. :-) I have learnt from him how to ignore haters rather than giving them a special place in our life.

I would at last recall what former cricketer Navjot Singh Siddhu once said about Tendulkar-

“Jaha har sar jhukh jaye wahi mandir hai, Jaha har nadi sama jaye wahi samandar hai aur jo har jung jeet jaye wahi SACHIN TENDULKAR hai”

-where every head gets bowed is a Temple, Where every river gets converged is a sea, And who gets victory in every battle is SACHIN TENDULKAR.

I get a personalized photo from Sachin Tendulkar after the retirement. 
It is the first time an Indian sportsperson has been given the nation's highest civilian honour. Sachin Tendulkar is also the youngest ever recipient of the award. SACHIN TENDULKAR will become the first sportsperson to be conferred the Bharat Ratna, India’s higest civilian award. The Prime Minister’s Office made the announcement hours after SACHIN TENDULKAR the curtains on a 24 year international career.

Thank you Sachin. For being Sachin. Continue to inspire, ignite and invoke. The Sachinism in each one of us so that we become a nation of believers.

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Don’t Leave Me Alone Tonight....!!

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The cold breeze….!!

The breeze around here is cold tonight.

Don’t leave me alone tonight.

Your deadly body….!!

Your deadly body and your deadly Style.

You are God for me tonight.

The cold breeze….!!

The moon is so bring this full moon night.

The moonlight too sighs at its sight.

I bestow….!!

I bestow all my styles upon you.

Don’t leave me alone tonight.

The cold breeze….!!

The stars are playing a sweet melody.

Today I sway for you in tune with it.

I will take it….!!

I will take it if it agrees.

You are God for me tonight.

The cold breeze….!!

That Was Salty Milk Now It's Salty Tea:- A Sweet Salty Touching Love Story....!!

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Today evening I reached back to home at New Delhi after a travelling of about 10 hours. I was out of Delhi from last 10 days. During that time I visited many places. It was a long time that I was far from blog, twitter, whatsapp as well as with internet connection. During the travelling I was reading a story written by Kiran Kumar.

 It remained me a real story of salty milk testing that was happened with me about 7 years ago when I was in a village with grandmother (nani). At that time there was no light in village during night time. That night I asked her for sugar for milk because sometimes I don’t like milk without sugar. She said: “Beta sugar nhi hai ander white daba rkha hai us mai se bura dal le”.

I go inside the jhopadi and I put some salt (I think its bura) in milk and after some time I taste that milk. So because of salt milk taste converted into salty. So after taste I say “nani ye sugar kadwa (salty) kb se ho gya.” She replied that “Beta aajkal ….!!” Can’t remember that dialog properly….!!

Here below is given a salty tea love story. I think you will enjoy during reading this story….!! :-)

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised.

          They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home. Suddenly he asked the waiter: "would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."

          Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but, still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously : why you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea ,just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my home town, I miss my home town so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.

          That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her far away hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.

          They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him!Thanks to his salty coffee!

          Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life...

And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it. After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said:" My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt it was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication!

          I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything.. Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste..But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again". Her tears made the letter totally wet.

          Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It's sweet. She replied.

          Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

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Capture The Best Moments of Your Life....!!

65th BLOG POST -->>

Recently, one of the most celebrate festival of India ended. Dipwali :-). It has always been very astonishing for me to understand the faith and trust and devotion of people in God that makes them stand in line for hours to get just a glance of an idol. I believe in trusting just one idol and that too, the one which is permanent. Rooted in some temple or the one at my home. Every thing that comes for our good is also destined to leave us. It teaches us a lesson that generally, we, human beings, fail to understand. We have the tendency of accepting only positive nods but any thing thats against our wish, we fail to understand and accept it as a part of life. A human being only needs win against loss, good against bad and acception against rejection. But festivals as this helps us to understand the real meaning of life.

I’m thinking n I’m thinking n I’m thinking..Too straight forward but must say "An open minded thought"..... Last one month was spending only in travelling through trains and buses to various parts of Haryana, Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh and Delhi.  It was nice to come Shahpura, Jaipur and Jaipur-Delhi Highway after 7 years. Last time I was come to Shahpura in my friend’s wedding. Spending three days in Jaipur with friends and their family in Khatipura, Jaipur. And before Jaipur I was in Rest House, Karnal, Haryana for three days with my cousins and brother. In last one decade I’ve attained most of Rajasthani wedding function. I’ve enjoyed so much these functions more than any trip or with college friends. Here I’ll not describe my journey moments.

        During travelling to various parts of Rajasthan, there was no problem in understanding their local language where normally they speak Rajasthani Language. I have no problem in understanding and speaking in Rajasthani Language b’coz I’m familiar much more than Haryanvi Language. Even today I’ve a collection of 700 Rajasthani songs but in Haryanvi only 16 selected songs of Haryanvi Chitrahar. And with this journey I’ve completed 3000 natural photos just within two years captured at different places. :-)

          During listening bollywood song “Yaar Badal Na Jaana – Talaash” you can see most historical place of Jaipur and Nahargrah. Above picture is of Nahargrah Fort.

"Khush Mizaji Bhi Mashoor Thi Hamari, Sadgi Bhi Kamal Hai......!!

Hum Shararti Bhi Inteha K Thay, Ab Sanjeedgi Bhi Be-Misaal Hain......!!"

Life is changing its phase. It’s becoming happier. But by circumstances or situations? No. By thoughts and its process. It always changes magnitude of mood and the proficiency with which the mind works. I am always subjective to myself and then the people around me. A race is always there in life. Though I prefer the one with myself. Neither the achievement of someone makes me jealous nor the failure of someone makes me happy. Whatever happens to me is by what happens with me. I am so self-obsessed, right? Yes Right….!! :-) But don't you think that there comes a time or there should come a time when one should start believing that someone else deserves better than what we achieve? No? How rude! :-) Yes, for me, it should. All of us know the amount of effort and struggle we put into things that are for our benefits. We know the consequences of efforts and also its side-effects. Yes, in the case if you don't sleep and only put efforts for your targets. :-)

           If you can't respect someone else's aim and dream and if you can't respect their success, you don't deserve to be successful. Even if time is favoring you today, tomorrow you will be surely shown the door towards failure. And you never know when the time might change for you. Time favors no one if one tends to be slightly out-of-the-mark. Remember this. You are never the best person to win a race until and unless you are the most passionate out of all the contestants running with you. if anyone else who have done better than you is also with you, remember, you should run to win the race but keep in mind, if the best person isn't winning it, you does not become the Champion. He even after losing remains to be Champion, it's just that it was your day today and not his. 

          Its hard to accept the truth that the thing we loved once will never be with us anymore but with time, every wound gets healed. So we should remain adamant when we know that leaving something will take us higher, in any case, our decisions shouldn't change. We should leave the environment, people, comfort and go for the hiking, that's tough and difficult but its something that provides comfort and ease for life. When I meet great celebrities whom I am in awe for, I start feeling bad when the time comes to leave. Even the celebrities know that the person standing with me is in tears from within but they know the factual of life. For them this is the standard of life that has to be followed. Otherwise, they meet new fans every day and if they start getting attached to each one of them, their progress will stop. 

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Champions Of Free Markets: Narendra Modi And Margaret Thatcher....!!

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          As the 2014 election turns into a national referendum on the popular but polarising politician, many question to come up again and again, not merely in Delhi, Mumbai and Bangalore, but equally in London, Brussels and Washington. Some day before I was reading about comparisons between Narendra Modi and former Britain’s Iron Lady and PM Margaret Thatcher on Economic Reformer.

           Margaret Thatcher was Britain’s first female prime minister and served three consecutive terms in office. She was one of the dominant political figures of 20th century. In India, the death of former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher has sparked comparisons  between the “Iron Lady” and Gujarat Chief Minister Narendra Modi.
She was a British nationalist and champion of free-market capitalism. As a politician she left a divisive legacy in her native U.K. and revamped her country’s declining economy in a process that also triggered social unrest.
 
          Narendra Modi, chief minister of India’s western Gujarat state, has presided over an economic boom in his region. Foreign investors say he has cut down on red tape and improved infrastructure in a country where red-tape-ism torpedoes many business deals and has held back economic growth.

          He hit many notes that would have been familiar to Margaret Thatcher. In many speeches to business executives in New Delhi, Ahmadabad and Kolkata. Which are widely seen as part of Narendra Modi’s attempts to kick-start a run for prime minister in 2014? As a member of the opposition Bharatiya Janata Party, talked about how governments should play only a small role in an economy, a dig at the national ruling Congress party’s massive social welfare programs. He regularly cited examples of entrepreneurial achievement in Gujarat as evidence of the power of individual choice as an economic driver. Margaret Thatcher would’ve liked this, too.

           Champions of free markets are hoping  Narendra Modi can emulate Margaret Thatcher, who took over the U.K. government in 1979 amid a broken economy and labor strife. Some day ago a Indian-based analyst at KPMG LLP, Navin Agrawal said “I think he’s our Iron Man.” Here these comparisons are valid and I think there is a lot in common between them. In his inclination for small government and a high level of governance, in that respect he’s close to Thatcher. Narendra Modi on his Twitter account tweeted this: “Inspirational leader of immense stature & fortitude, Baroness Margaret Thatcher was an epoch maker. A sad loss for UK and the world.”

          The parallels between Narendra Modi and Margaret Thatcher didn’t go unnoticed by others on social media.  After Gujarat election we were listening in social media that in the 1980’s there were President Reagan and PM Margaret Thatcher, who forever changed the world we live in. Now, it is Honorable Narendra Modi’s turn to make a similar impact. A pro-Modi group based in the U.S. Indian Americans for Freedom said in a note congratulating him for his re-election in Gujarat state elections in December.
But here a question is arises that is a comparison between Narendra Modi and Margaret Thatcher appropriate? Regardless of his commitment to free-market reforms, Narendra Modi is likely to find a job on a national scale a lot more trying than managing Gujarat, which is home to some of India’s most entrepreneurial people.

          The government of Prime Minister Manmohan Singh unveiled a series of overhauls in September, including allowing foreign companies to invest in Indian supermarkets for the first time. Many states opposed the move, saying it would kill local businesses and have refused to implement the law. Narendra Modi’s response at the time hardly showed him to be a free marketer of the Chicago school of economics. While he didn’t reject the proposal completely, he said India needs to modernize its smaller industries before allowing in the Wal-Marts of this world. His party, meanwhile, opposed the reforms.

           But there’s another way Narendra Modi and Margaret Thatcher could be compared. Both figures polarized opinion in their countries. She sidelined trade unions through sweeping privatizations. Hundreds of people died in the military campaign she spearheaded to retake the Falkland Islands from Argentina. In the U.K., some went as far as cheering her death. And here Narendra Modi faces criticism for his ties to right-wing Hindu groups, even from some BJP allies. Critics also say he didn’t do enough to stop anti-Muslim violence during communal violence in Gujarat in 2002. He has denied any wrongdoing.
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