Mera Kya or Muje Kya:- Hume Apni Zimmedari Puri Siddat Ke Sath Nibhaana Chayea Lekin Jataana Nhi….!!

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My Responsibility for Playing A Character On stage With My Team

Tomorrow is teacher’s day.  After parents teachers give us knowledge and teaching us about responsibility. The biggest deed that you can do in life is taking responsibility of anything. We should learn from elder and experienced one about it. Here I’m sharing some moments about responsibility of my life. On Independence Day PM of India Mr. Narendra Modi was saying in his speech that: “Mera Kya or Muje Kya”, He was 100% right. If in our life we’ve “Mera Kya or Muje Kya” then we can’t learn how to take responsibility. This line is also something related to responsibility as well as other things also like as corruption etc. Let’s start from school life. In anyone’s life no platform can’t be better than school where we start learning and taking responsibility. On teacher’s day I also get a chance to become math teacher in school.

 I remember when I was in school, I was better in study so whenever any teacher used to ask me to keep a stick for giving punishment to week student that they would need while conducting a lecture, I used to be the first person to say that I am not capable of it. Teacher smile at me and give the job to someone else. Later on, when I came in 11^th class principal called me to his office and give a cup of tea and biscuit and say form today you’re monitor of your class and take the responsibility. I was capable for responsibility and say yes. But later in 12^th class I refused for to become monitor of my class because of the mistake of my class teacher. But getting all information about incident principal was in favor of me but refused again and no other was ready to be monitor of class even I don’t know why principal was not ready to give this responsibility to other students of my class.

Later when I came in Graduation after getting matured, teachers again tried to give me some or the other responsibility but I kept myself away from it saying that I’m on leave and hence I am not able to match up to the standards that you have set in your mind. During first year of my graduation class, my math teacher Mrs. Sunita Karwasra asks me to keep chalk and duster, for this responsibility I say yes.  But now, when my teachers ask me to take a responsibility or two, I agree. I agree because now I realize that it’s just a shameful procrastination which leads a personality towards disgracing itself. 

 

A Quote on Responsibility For Your Life

Taking responsibility of anything is as difficult as saying it in thousands people that you have a dream which is as high as becoming a Prime Minister and you will achieve it by the next election even though you know that you are nowhere close to it. I remember when I going regularly to vocational rehabilitation centre, save cow and some other social function only because of my mama ji and parents. When we see the world of these peoples all of us in the family got emotional at that moment and wanted to shower more love among each other than before. My parent said to me that I should study sincerely so that I can take responsibility of my family also for society who doesn’t have a shadow anymore. As soon as I heard this, I found myself under such a big weight that it took me just few seconds to tell my mother that If I'll be capable of doing this then I’ll do and till they shouldn't expect anything from me. After that I started feeling as if a big pressure cooker has been installed in my brain which will explode at any moment.

Simply everyone’s life is different from other. Everybody is able to take any responsibility according to situation. Taking our own responsibility is so tough that taking someone else's responsibility is the toughest job in the world. If someone wants to get their ticket reserved on IRCTC and they ask you to do the favor as they are busy somewhere else. If you say YES to it and later on, you fail in booking a ticket for them or even forget booking the tickets, you will stay in guilt for all your life whenever you'll remember that specific person or hear their name. If you say to your friend that I would be present every time you would be needing me even if you'll be wrong, I would come without thinking anything just to help you and a day comes when you receive a call and you are unable to leave your house at 3:00 AM because of your parental rule, you will never be able to look into the eyes of your friend again. Hence think hundred times before you promise anything to anyone.

            Now a day, in young generation people, they are always ready to promise to their lover but not ready to promise for social work. If they promise, don’t know when they can break their promise. There are many friends who tell me that they promised their lover "Kuch bhi ho yaar mai shaadi to tujhse hi karunga", the first thing I tell them is,"Go and say it to your partner the next day itself that you take back that big responsibility of marrying her without knowing the consequences and situations at that very time". My friends do hate me for such bluntness and insisting attitude but only I know what trauma they will go through when they'll find that the situation isn't in their control at the last moment and they will end up participating in a crime to prove how strong they are. Why to take such responsibilities that we are unsure about?

We should escape from those responsibilities which we can’t do. We should promise only for that work which we can do. “Karlo Dunia Muthi Mai” it is possible when you will work hard and every time you’ll ready to take any type of responsibility in any situation.  If I say that I am going to write 365 posts this year means a post a day then it becomes a very big responsibility as a Blogger to prove it. Hence, I never make such statements. But here I can make a plan that I’ll try to write some good useful post every time then it is also a big responsibility for me. Not in the case of Blogging only but even in small things in life. If my father says that I want you to send a certain mail to certain company on a specific day, I write it everywhere so that I don't forget it. If I take responsibility then I actually use all my notebooks, mobile, laptop, email ID etc as a reminder tool. 

I would always respect a person who is taking responsibility of many things around him and fulfilling all of them. Even when you celebrate Raksha Bandhan, you take a big responsibility of protecting your sister. And every brother knows how big and tough that responsibility is. Boys always have a part of his mind thinking about where his sister would be and with whom she would be. Even when couple decides to go for a baby, they take a very big responsibility to nourish a small child into a good and successful human being. Here I’m giving a mantra: "Hume Apni Zimmedari Puri Siddat Ke Sath Nibhaana Chayea Lekin Jataana Nhi". And the biggest thing that you should crave for learning every minute is- "I will take each and every responsibility that is been given to me by my friends, elders, boss, employee, teacher, neighbor, relative etc". The day you will achieve this attitude, believe me, you would have won the world around you. And finally I’ll say respect all teachers….!! :-)

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Parveen Kumar Sahrawat