38th BLOG POST -->>
So, everyone of us celebrated
PROPOSE DAY today. I know all the dumbos who were dumbos are still dumbos. No
one got a partner. But, again 365 days will pass, again, in 2014, we will
celebrate this idiotic day. And what will we gain? Relationship Status will
change a little. From being Single, we will go into the phase of being Super-Single.
And we will become Seniors to those who would be celebrating this for the first
time in 2013. And we will be standing there to guide them. We would be guiding
them to remain as dumb and foolish as possible. So that you remain single for
next 1 year too. And, you will get a chance to become Super-Single like us. And
we would get a promotion and we will be Super-Super-Single. I don't think there
is any other i.e. more productive reason of celebrating PROPOSE DAY. :-) Some
may ask for a National Holiday too because it takes a lot of guts to go to
someone and erupt what you kept in your heart from months and years. So, you
might need a whole day to prepare for this adventurous and tough job of
proposing someone whom you loved more than your parents(sometimes). Right? So,
basically, this is what PROPOSE DAY is.
From the first paragraph, you may
have thought that this guy is full of negativism. He just can't see someone
getting through the paths of fire and patience and innocence and love and faith
and finally setting up into a Relationship with the most beautiful person for
him/her. But, I have no problem in seeing you getting success in the most
impatient task of the world. Yes, keeping the feeling of love for someone in
your heart for months and years is not an easy task. Even I love someone. Even
I want to erupt myself. But why don't I? Because I am scared of rejection. Okay.
Everyone is. You don't go and propose any girl walking on Fashion Street with
magnetic smile, 5 feet 6 inch height, straightened hair, high-heel footie and
dancing ear-rings in her perfectly-shaped ears. You start developing a feeling
for someone whom you know nicely.
(Let's talk from the boy side as it is
difficult to use both the gender forms in all the coming sentences. Thodi
mehnat bachaao meri bhi :-)) Either the girl may be your childhood friend or
she may be someone with whom you spend most of your time after your parents and
best friend or she may be someone who never talks to you because of no common
connect but she gives you a smile every time both of you pass against each
other on the road. So, when a girl with whom you have such kind of connect, you
fear of losing her just because you share your passion of love you have for her
to her. So, many fattus like me (and also you :-)) keep their feeling in their
heart and sit quietly at one place. With a rose in hand, and plucking every
petal to find an answer of two parallel questions- Kya wo bhi mujhse pyar karti
hai? *one petal gone* Ya nahi? *Another petal gone*. And if in the end, you
lose your love because of this superstitious game of plucking petals, you
finalize to keep the feeling to yourself for all your life, and, by the grace
of God (Sorry, Rose), if you get a positive response that even she loves you,
even then you shrink your *** because you know, this petal is not going to save
you from her brothers if in any case she hates you. :-)
I remember my experience when I
said about my feeling of love to someone and she said "I NOT LOVE
YOU". Even I wasn't good in grammar but her fucking grammar fucked the
feeling of love I had for her. Now, some emo may say to me "LOVE IS
UNCONDITIONAL" "YOU ARE SUPER-IDIOT THAT YOU LEFT HER JUST BECAUSE OF THAT......CHAL LEAVE YAAR". :-) But, this is
how everyone reviews love today. Who loves unconditionally? Everyone is
small-minded. Everyone wants their girlfriend to be stylish and beautiful. So
that if they take them for a date or a walk, 10 friends should rotate their
head at 180 degree to see your girlfriend. Everyone wants their girlfriend to
maintain distance from boys and make it sure that she don't shake hands with
them. Everyone wants their girlfriend to avoid replying to SMSes by other male
classmates because they have an insecurity that she may run away somewhere
else. TRUST has fled away somewhere from today's love. Love exists. But all the
basic attributes of love are missing in this 21st Century's Love. Today, its
all about rubbing skins, sucking lips, buying condoms, in-taking I-pill and the
day you get bored with the same skin and same mate, end the process which began
on PROPOSE DAY and wait for another PROPOSE DAY to get into a new process with
a new mate.
I am not saying that being in
relationship is void at all. No. It has many positivism attached with it too.
Relations are very value-creating. Relations are very motivating at times.
Relations are a mode of revealing yourself to someone. Relations makes you feel
proud of yourself. Relations brings a confidence in you. When two people meet
and decides to live the future life with each other, they know that they will
have to struggle to adjust with each other's varying nature. They know that
they will have to deal with the result-less arguments and hot talks. They know
that they will have to answer to their partner's question almost 50 times a day
even when they hate answering those
questions. Maintaining a Love Relationship is not a road of roses but it is a
bed of thorns. But, thorns for a temporary period of time. Once you pass the
initial stage of love affair, later on, once you get adjusted with your
partner, you know that this is your life and the result is in front of you. So,
in this Valentine Week, get prepared to augment yourself a bit and get out of
the same RELATIONSHIP STATUS. :-) Get away from the characteristic of Dumbness.
For me, these relationships have never worked. But I hope these days will bring
a shining star in your life. Stars will twinkle. But don't let them be lost in
the sky. Keep them as bright as sun for yourself. Even when they don't shine,
you should know where your star is, in what situation it is and what does it
expect from you. :-) BEST OF LUCK to those who are going to reveal their
feelings to their Crush.
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